Meditation Is Like A Dinner Party

Written by Steve Gillman


Try Not To Force Things Too Much

Often, when meditating, we try too hard to force a certain state of mind that we think we should have. We try hard to suppress thoughts, for example. This is just another thought, of course, and another obstacle torepparttar peaceful state we are hoping for.

So how do you make things happen that can't be forced? The question itself showsrepparttar 128456 need for another perspective. Some things can't be forced to happen, and all struggles to do so only take you farther away. There are times when all you can do is prepare and wait.

The Dinner Invitation

Imagine a wonderful evening with new friends. You prepared dinner, bought a good bottle of wine, and cleanedrepparttar 128457 house. Nowrepparttar 128458 guests are here,repparttar 128459 conversation is great, and you are happy. Can you make this happen? Yes and no.

You can prepare in every way to make it a pleasant event, but inrepparttar 128460 end,repparttar 128461 guests can decline your invitation, or not arrive, or show up late, right? You can't force them to come, or if you try, you'll ruinrepparttar 128462 atmosphere or evenrepparttar 128463 friendship.

Create Your First Dream Board

Written by Maria Marsala


(Dream It, Create It, Become It)

Have you ever heard of "Dream Boards" or "Treasure Maps"? A Dream Board is a visual picture ofrepparttar dreams you have for your life. Some of my clients also use this concept to visualize their businesses! It's their first business plan. One thing that is important to remember, though, is not to "get stuck" on your dream boards. We all have plans for our future, but it's important to watchrepparttar 128453 universe for signs of "its" plans for us. Otherwise, we might miss out on some great opportunities!

Step 1: Purchase a large piece of paper such as oak tag or poster board in whatever color you like. Also, find 4 thumbtacks and glue or scotch tape. You now haverepparttar 128454 beginnings of your Dream Board.

Step 2: Inrepparttar 128455 center of your board, put a picture of you that you really enjoy looking at.

Step 3: Whatever your dreams, goals, etc., start cutting out pictures that symbolize your dreams and paste them on your board. You can always drawrepparttar 128456 pictures if you'd like. Can't draw perfectly? Draw it anyway! (If I can, you can.)

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