Marriage dreams when fails !!!Written by sadashivan
Marriage and Attraction: Relation is successful as long as there is attraction between partners. Attraction of actions, attentiveness, beauty, behaviour, caring nature, sexual satisfaction and etc, contribute to prolong relation. Activities to attract partner becomes slow and casual as involves in normal and daily responsibilities leads to escaping second role. A person has mainly two roles in married life, one for spouse and other with Job/ responsibilities. Partner and family attraction influences to conduct responsibilities to benefit family and thus involvement in responsibilities intensifies that elapses attention to spouse. Especially women undergo this stage involving intensely in their free services of taking care of children and maintaining house. After reaching from office male partner expects his wife fresh and sexy who is heavily tired of hardship. A disappointment is major factors for fading attraction towards her. Men too face this situation when they deeply involve themselves in their responsibilities in office or elsewhere. Failure to give time for family or wife is serious complaint, woman in house does not grasp thus blames husband for negligent behaviour. Both become responsible for dieing away attraction to keep healthy relation. Attraction of partner normally fades as time passes; this is natural and real truth. Marriage and external attraction/infidelity: Fading attraction drives to incline towards fresh and new attractions so can gratify self and fulfil what is lost. Those who are exposed to external environment are easily dragged towards these attractions. Each woman or man working are exposed to external atmosphere, is bound to hate or approve one of many she/ he meets or contacts as behaviour of an individual influences others to observe and analyse personality as good or bad or so-so; (look, character, action and etc) in all conditions of yes or no or so-so has ability to attract in negative or positive one to like and another to despise, so-so characters generally lack to attract deeply as becomes normal. Escaping from this situation is impossible as brain reacts instantly to beware for right or wrong. The approval indicates acceptance of personality that matches own. In offices and other work places spouses meet their colleagues of both sexes. Working men and women spend more on working hours than staying with spouse. Spend most of their day with them eating, chatting, and joking etc; these develop warm relation to step further to get closer. Working woman of strong character having happy married life limits to move forward and strong character with shattered married life will definitely move forward to get closer, will not even care social impact. On other hand woman of weak characters are easily motivated to luxury of emotions irrespective of home atmosphere. As far as men are concerned major percentage believe if she agrees I will not miss golden opportunity but many would wish secretly in order to avoid any clash at home. This is dream and an expectation of a man, yes, if relation at home is unsatisfactory becomes journey to heaven. However, no one can stop imagining dominant personality of colleague (opposite-sex). That means colleague’s personality has influenced enough to remember and entered in life. Now working woman/ man maintains relation with two, one physical relation and other in imagination. The comparison of spouse and colleague begins, environmental effect of home and spouse if is stronger he/she inclines towards home and if not affection starts with colleague. Colleague’s initiation helps to establish union, some manage secret relation and some dare to get rid of old relationship. Sexual appetite is essential need of an adult. Some are content and some have great desire due to genetic characteristic, for them controlling sexual desire is very difficult. They need to extinguish their hunger so are in hunt for buddy. Most women control their sexual desire despite inadequate sexual appetite; such people are normally upset, restless, tedious and etc; in their life. Sexual appetite is natural process connected with our body and brain functioning, as relief is by process of releasing so controlling is not normal can lead to major psychological diseases such as depression, sickness and lifelessness etc; are enough to invite blood pressure, mental and physical problems etc.
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