First, you must get yourself recognized. I suggest placing a personal ad on an adult lifestyle site. Placing an ad in newspapers or magazines could possibly get you unwanted replied from unwanted people who may not even be lifestyle minded. Also, once your ad is there it's there and becomes outdated. I strongly suggest a lifestyle site.

How you place your ad and it's contents is extremely important.

Stating that you have an unusually huge private part that hangs to your knees and that you work it like a jack hammer is not what impresses serious swinging couples.

Prospective partners want to know about you. Your hobbies and what you like to do for fun outside of bedroom.

Always be honest in your ad. Never state that you are single if in fact you are married and swinging without your spouse.

A couple may be willing to look past fact that you are swinging without your spouse,

But, once they realize that you have lied to them, they will lose all interest in you.

Trust and honesty are very important!

Most swinger clubs allow single men only one night a week if they are allowed at all.

* Dating Tip #1

Most common form of introduction would be to say" Please Allow me to introduce myself" I use this one myself,it helps to break ice and it is polite yet confident. Have you ever tried to introduce yourself in a night club or a bar? I am sure you have. Do you say "Hi my name is"... my telephone number and my address is such and such...No I thought not. When you introduce yourself on http://Iwantudating.com ,please use common sense and do not reveal any personal details about yourself. This is one great thing about online dating.Take as much time as you need in getting to know someone before being comfortable enough in revealing all there is to know about you. So make sure you are not pressured.

* Dating Tip #2

Do not lie about yourself on your profile. People will eventually find out you are having them on.

* Dating Tip #3

Do take time to complete entire profile on registration form - Any unanswered questions say you could not be bothered or are hiding something. Try and complete form as much as possible to let any potential contact know real you.

* Dating Tip #4

Have you ever heard of phrase "Honesty is best policy" I am sure you have.Honesty is admired yet dishonesty is being disrespectful.Tell people you are emailing your true intentions and it should be correct path to successful dating. Always remember, that you must use your common sense and judgement.I know it is not easy to judge who you are contacting on other side so please assess who you are being honest with.

* Dating Tip #5