Making A DifferenceWritten by Jenn Borjeson
Cancer. Just word brings fear into heart of whoever hears it. Unfortunately, chances are high that at some point in each of our lives, we will be affected by cancer. We may suffer from it ourselves, or we may have a friend or a loved one diagnosed with it. No matter what situation, it’s terrifying to have cancer be a part of your life. Whether you’ve been affected personally by cancer or not, you probably wish you could help those who have been. If you had a chance to offer support and encouragement to a cancer patient, to make an immediate and positive difference in their lives, would you jump at it? Meet Laura Armstrong, a woman whose father died of pancreatic cancer in 1989. The years passed and Ms. Armstrong joined an online support group for women who had given birth in August of 1999. One of women in her group was going through chemotherapy treatment for breast cancer. This struck close to home for Ms. Armstrong and she decided she wanted to do something nice for her friend, to encourage her throughout her treatment. After her treatment was over, she let Ms. Armstrong know how much support had meant to her, and she told Ms. Armstrong that she had thought of her as her "chemo angel". Ms. Armstrong suddenly had an idea - in August of 2000, Chemo Angels was born! Chemo Angels is a web site (www.chemoangels.com) that gives visitors to it an opportunity to become an angel to a patient undergoing treatment for cancer. The service is provided through postal mail (and sometimes e-mail), so they will accept both volunteers and patients from all over world. The web site consists of an application page for both volunteers and patients. Patients range in age from babies to elderly folks, and despite name "Chemo Angels" patients can be going through any stage of cancer treatment. There are three ways to volunteer as an Angel. A Chemo Angel supports their patient by sending cards and small gifts a couple of times per week. Gifts don’t have to be extravagant and/or expensive, but can be such items as bookmarks, candles, stickers, magnets, books, snack foods - it can be kept simple or can be as creative as you like. Another way to volunteer is to be a Card Angel. Card Angels stick to sending cards to their patient, and often include items that can fit into a card such as bookmarks, stickers, inspirational poems or stories and like. The third way to participate in Chemo Angel program is by becoming a Special Assignment Angel. "Special Assignments" are sent via e-mail to all who sign up. Any Angel can submit their patient to Special Assignment group. These special assignments consist of patients going through a particularly tough time, a death of a patient or patient’s loved one. They also consist of birthday lists of all patients being e-mailed to Special Assignment Angels, who can then choose which assignments to respond to. When you volunteer to be a Chemo Angel, you can choose whether you’d like to be a Chemo Angel, a Card Angel, or a Special Assignment Angel - or you can choose all three! Before you can become an Angel, you must read rules and guidelines provided on web site. Taken directly from web site, "Being a Chemo Angel is a long-term commitment that should not be entered into lightly." Some of reasons listed on web site for not becoming an Angel are having your own health problems or caring for someone with major health problems, expecting a major life change (new baby, move, etc.), financial burden might be too great, or having a personal situation that may interfere with your angeling commitment. Once accepted as an Angel, you will receive a copy of your patients questionnaire, listing their personal information such as name, address, birthday, religion, and their "likes." This will help give you some ideas of things to send and talk about in your letters/cards. Although web site lists specifics, following information is a general guideline when becoming a Chemo Angel (taken from Frequently Asked Questions page at www.chemoangels.com): *While it doesn’t cost a lot to be a Chemo Angel, it does require spending some money. Most folks find they can angel a patient for about $25-$30 per month, including postage.
| | That;s Funny, You Don't Look Like You have a DisabilityWritten by Lynda Appell
That's Funny You don't Look Like You Have a DisABILITY Editorial about how invisible disabilities are just as much disabilities as visible ones. >Th's funny, you don't look like you have a disABILITY.by Lynda Appell Any one who can see that a man, woman, boy, girl who is in a wheel chair has a visible disability. Like wise seeing some one using a cane either as a walking aid or as help for someone who is blind. Conversely someone who has an invisible disability, be it a learning disorder, a mental illness under control with treatment, a person with chronic debilitating pain and many other examples, too numerous to mention, are seen unless their disability is known as not having anything disabling about them. I am not implying that persons with handicaps that are not readily seen are more disabled than those with a handicap that is readily visible.
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