Make Mistakes! It's Okay. Really!

Written by Ronnie Nijmeh


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Make Mistakes! It's Okay. Really!

When you fall, do you get right back up? Do you learn from your mistake and move on? Or do you kick yourself so hard inrepparttar 123124 butt that you just mope around for days in your PJs and wonder why you're so miserable? Come on! Get a grip!

Okay, okay, that was uncalled for, but seriously,repparttar 123125 more mistakes you make,repparttar 123126 more you learn. The more you learnrepparttar 123127 more you grow andrepparttar 123128 more likely you'll be a future bright star inrepparttar 123129 sky.

When you were a young growing child, how were you supposed to knowrepparttar 123130 oven was hot? Or that you can’t put metal inrepparttar 123131 microwave? Or that when you say something impolite you'll hurt someone's feelings? You would have either experienced these things first hand, or you were taught that these were all things to avoid.

Mistake Anxiety

A constant fact of life is that we all make mistakes. What varies is how we all handle a self-inflicted setback. Some get angry; others get upset, while others encounterrepparttar 123132 wretched beast known as denial (What mistake? It wasn’t me!).

Just like we mentioned in a previous article: “The Key's inrepparttar 123133 Hole. Now turn it!”, it’s important to take a chance! If you make a mistake, at least you turnedrepparttar 123134 key and made a valiant attempt. If you were too terrified of turningrepparttar 123135 key, you never would have known whether you would have been successful or not! And you couldn't have possibly made a mistake to learn from!

Motivation-- the Key is in Your Actions

Written by Kate Hufstetler


Have you ever read something like this as a "way to increase motivation"? :

"When you open your eyes get yourself excited to be awake each new day !! Joy is contagious, and so is pessimism! Tell yourself you're happy to be alive!. This might berepparttar day you find love. Great things could come your way. Think positively that something good will happen to you today and 3 our of 4 chances it will."

To this I say BAH HUMBUG ! gibberish !!!! hahaha

Who re-writes this stuff (over and over and over)? Have they ever had depression? faced bankruptcy? been hit by a tornado? .... perhaps...

The truth is-- motivation CAN be generated... but not out of thin air.

To create a life filled with motivation start with 3 small steps:

** Set Goals-- then you have something you love to work for or to work towards.

** Have Hobbies -- something you are learning or are passionate about in your free time... then TAKE TIME to pursue them! You will be amazed howrepparttar 123123 thought of returning to a pleasure later inrepparttar 123124 evening can help you feel great and desire to get throughrepparttar 123125 work day ahead!!

** Be inrepparttar 123126 Moment -- one ofrepparttar 123127 things I discovered in my thirties is that there is a BETTER word for boredom--- it is a hidden well kept secret to those under 32. Would you like to know whatrepparttar 123128 real term for that feeling is? ok-- here goes-- it is PEACE. Enjoy it :-)

How can you expect motivation without: personal goals? If you have a personal short term goal for each week that works towards your monthly and yearly longer term goals-- this will inspire you throughout your week.

Motivation is easier when: you have hobbies you LOVE, enjoy, and pursue. A few side bonuses include: you will be a more pleasant person to be around, have more to talk about with friends and new acquaintances, and feel better about yourself and your day as you look forward to each new opportunity to pursue your passions.

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