Lose Your Hope And You Can Bring Down The Curtain!

Written by Richard Vegas


The others inrepparttar raft didn't seem to share Eddie's state of mind. His companions clearly began to think about what lay beyond death; And, to think about it in terms of their own lives. Eddie said, "at no time did I ever lose hope that we would be saved." Instead, Eddie tried to impart something to his comrades that would help them and be of great value to them. What was it?

Hope! Perhaps you have readrepparttar 123618 story of Captain Eddie Rickenbacker and his crew when their plane fell intorepparttar 123619 Pacific. There were seven men in life rafts for twenty one days with nothing but water and sun for as far asrepparttar 123620 eye could see.

As Luck Would Have It!

Now, ask yourself this question. You know better than anyone else. How would you have reacted to being cooped up with seven of your best friends for twenty one days in a life raft inrepparttar 123621 middle ofrepparttar 123622 Pacific?

Would you have been trying to ring someone's neck? Or, would you have beenrepparttar 123623 pillar of hope for your friends?

What is hope anyway? Hope is that magical emotion which is unseen but, causes us to seerepparttar 123624 evidence of what we desire before we get it.

It's not really faith. Faith is likerepparttar 123625 furnace in your house. Hope is likerepparttar 123626 thermostat onrepparttar 123627 wall. Hope can be regulated up and down. The more you turn it up,repparttar 123628 more fire it creates in your belly. The more fire you create in you,repparttar 123629 more fear you expel.

The Dynamic Duo!

Hope isrepparttar 123630 expectation that you will get your desire, and faith isrepparttar 123631 belief that it is possible. These two are a force to be reckoned with. Together, they are more powerful than superman,repparttar 123632 lone ranger, and trigger. You can changerepparttar 123633 course of your destiny with Hope and Faith.

You see, a person reacts consciously to anything, which to him or her is believable, desirable and attainable. He/She also reacts unconsciously to inner urges that cause you to get into action when suggestions are made torepparttar 123634 subconscious.

You may react favorably, unfavorably, or neutral to some stimulus; It all depends on whatrepparttar 123635 suggestions are. And, these suggestions have a direct impact onrepparttar 123636 hope ofrepparttar 123637 individual.

The Fortunes Of War!

Have you ever had to hope, against all hope, that your desire was obtainable? Have you ever, just out of sheer will and determination, forced yourself to look onrepparttar 123638 bright side of life with allrepparttar 123639 circumstances telling you you're a bald faced liar? Yeah? What did you do? Blow your stack? Or, come up smelling like a rose?

Your hope isrepparttar 123640 root cause of whatever you got. Did you get your desire? You kept your hope. Did you not get what you desired? You lost your hope.

Now don't you get mad at me. I'm justrepparttar 123641 messenger. Yes, I admit, sometime we get things, at times, when we lose hope. It's almost as ifrepparttar 123642 Universe says; "here bozo, splat, here's a little bone for you".

But, by and large,repparttar 123643 desirable goals we obtain come when we don't lose hope. I don't want to go through life just getting a little "splat" now and then. I want to go through life breakingrepparttar 123644 bank. Yeah, hip hip.

There Should Be Less Talk, Mother Theresa - EQ at Work

Written by Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach


Emotional intelligence involves many separate competencies. One of them is compassion or empathy. You might think of it as ^soft.^ Well, actually some people think of emotional intelligence as ^soft.^

Which brings up an interesting point. Inrepparttar Strengths e-course I offer, I askrepparttar 123617 learners to namerepparttar 123618 major strength of different well-known people. Last week I asked about Mother Theresa. Pamela Sheppard replied: “The standard is compassion, but, having hadrepparttar 123619 chance to actually see her in action, I have to add mental toughness, clarity of intention and economy of action. She was Holy Hell on Wheels, and thank God for that! --- and anyone else pales beside her.”

I was intrigued and emailed Pamela back. Had she seen Mother Theresa? What was it like?

Pamela wrote back: “Yes. I met Mother Theresa in Tijuana, where she set up her seminary forrepparttar 123620 Order she had tried to start. This tiny woman didn’t waste a nanosecond on anyone like me … Her energy was given torepparttar 123621 poorest participants, who had nothing but their faith. This alone made for one ofrepparttar 123622 most inspiring afternoons I have ever or will ever experience.

“But beyond that, I witnessed her working withrepparttar 123623 man appointed head ofrepparttar 123624 Brothers there. He sat, she paced; animated, vigorous, passionate about whatever it was she was discussing with him. She was unmistakably in command. I will NEVER forget it. Everything I read about her since that time has more resonance, more depth, more meaning inrepparttar 123625 light of her as this Commander in Chief.”

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