While engaging in conversations with friends and co-workers, how often do you feel that other person has truly heard what you've said?

If you want to succeed in social settings, relationships, and business, one way to ensure your success is to be a great listener.

There are a few simple rules you can follow to help you become a better listener, therefore enhancing your conversation skills.

1. Stop talking.

It sounds very simplistic but if you are constantly talking, how can others express themselves? Make an effort to shift focus of conversation to other person.

Be aware of your own body language. Match other person's body language by leaning forward when they lean forward, etc.

Attention to small details will give person you are speaking with a feeling that you truly hear what they are saying and that you are genuinely interested in their opinions.

If you sit with your arms crossed, constantly check your watch, or stare out window, person with whom you are speaking will feel that you are distant and disinterested.

2. Pay attention to tone of your voice.

Even if you are only giving brief answers or asking short questions, tone of your voice plays a major part in communicating effectively.

If your tone suggests a condescending attitude, boredom, or anger, you will lose your audience and people will no longer want to spend time speaking with you or listening to what you have to say.

Your personal and business environments may be very different, but skills needed to communicate effectively are basically same.

If you are attentive, informed, and a great listener, you can start a conversation with almost anyone in any situation.

1. If you need to improve your conversational skills in workplace, look around at those who seem to continually advance in their profession.

Notice how they speak with other employees, from CEO to janitor. A friendly smile, a firm handshake, and a confident attitude are generally common factors among those who are quickly moving up corporate ladder.

By making a conscious effort to speak with everyone you encounter and displaying a friendly, self-assured attitude, you will project a successful image and make lasting impressions upon co-workers.

2. Your personal life is no different in that a positive outlook and friendly disposition will go a long way in improving your relationships with friends and family members.

Everyone you encounter, from your spouse to clerk at your local convenience store will appreciate and respond favorably to a kind word and a smiling face.

By paying attention to interests and activities of others, you will never lack for conversation. Ask about other person's day, future plans, or any subject that you know is of interest to them.