Life on the Front Burner

Written by Louise Morganti Kaelin


How many times in your life have you had to put something 'onrepparttar back burner', letting an idea or a project simmer inrepparttar 130372 background while you focused on something else? How often wererepparttar 130373 things that went onrepparttar 130374 back burner your personal hopes, dreams or needs while you concentrated on repparttar 130375 hopes, dreams or needs of someone else? There is nothing wrong with that decision and in some cases it can be admirable. However, it's not commendable if your personal needs never come torepparttar 130376 fore-front.

Duringrepparttar 130377 safety instructions on an airplane, we are instructed to putrepparttar 130378 mask over our own mouth first, and then on our child's. Why? The reason is simple -- if we are knocked unconscious there will be no one to look afterrepparttar 130379 child, putting them at greater risk thanrepparttar 130380 risk they face inrepparttar 130381 few moments it takes to put our own mask on. The wisdom of this is readily apparent once we stop and think about it. It's also good advice to take forward into all areas of our lives.

For many years, I putrepparttar 130382 needs of others first. As I evolved personally, I came to understand that it was okay - healthier, even - to put my needs equal torepparttar 130383 needs of others. In fact, it is how I now definerepparttar 130384 word 'selfish', and userepparttar 130385 term 'self-centered' for someone determined to live as thoughrepparttar 130386 world revolves around them.

Even with that advanced understanding, however, I still didn't take care of myself as much as I needed. That included delaying doctors' appointments or working pastrepparttar 130387 exhaustion point because someone else needed me (or I thought they did). Even though I felt my needs were equal to repparttar 130388 needs of others,repparttar 130389 reality is that 90% ofrepparttar 130390 time I still opted to take care of others before myself. This isn't bad, either, because forrepparttar 130391 most part these were conscious choices I made. Unfortunately, there has been a physical and emotional cost that becomes harder and harder to bounce back from.

5 Awesome Actions of Highly Creative Leaders!

Written by Bill Thomas


How many times have you wondered why you are unable to "think-out-of-the-box" more often?

We are all products of our environment and our backgrounds usually prevent us from viewing situations withrepparttar unique eyes of our personal experience.

However,repparttar 130371 leaders who think "out-of-the-proverbial-box" do so by incorporating what I like to see as a, Strategically Wise Synergistic Process of Creation.

These creative thinkers apply their own kinds of action-oriented logic to problems to help them find new wisdom, discover opportunities or seerepparttar 130372 facts in different ways.

In a word, truly creative types act differently, in ways that we'll call "Logical Action-Steps".

Logical Action-Step One: Achieve Understanding not Mere Reasoning

You want to findrepparttar 130373 basic or underlying meanings ofrepparttar 130374 problems facing your group.

You could reason-out what is happening, by using your linear thinking skills to negotiate, analyze or plan your response.

For instance, you could notice that it is more chilly, by 15 degrees, this evening than it was yesterday at this same time which is certainly a reasonable observation.

Your could use your reasoning prowess to rememberrepparttar 130375 cooling trend of last month's temperatures and conclude that it was windier andrepparttar 130376 skies much clearer [of clouds] for most of last night and today - therefore you would assume that it was those factors which contributed to a colder night tonight than it was last night.

Creative thinkers would aggressively investigaterepparttar 130377 weather by:

- intensely searching for answers,

- through disillusioning or transforming their pre-conceptions,

- looking within, around and beneathrepparttar 130378 conditions,

- recognizing and deeply understanding their core assumptions aboutrepparttar 130379 weather

Logical Action-Step Two: Seek The Strategist's Viewpoint

If you're like most knowledge-workers, you probably have a fairly extensive network of friends, colleagues, and associates. Your social network has been built over time through your individual experiences, efforts and encounters.

Strategists releaserepparttar 130380 latent energies of their social networks through collaborative inquiries into finding new solutions, handling challenges and exploiting opportunities for transformation.

Thus by beingrepparttar 130381 strategist you actively look for ways to create, leverage and extend synergy throughout your group.

You would want to set-up an environment or atmosphere of synergism where your team interacts and has processes or policies which encourage interactions in such a way so thatrepparttar 130382 total impact ofrepparttar 130383 group's efforts adds up to be more thanrepparttar 130384 mere sum of their individual contributions.

Logical Action-Step Three: Engage in First-Person Research

Creative leaders make it a point to evaluaterepparttar 130385 progress of their own personal development - such as,repparttar 130386 stages of growth andrepparttar 130387 legitimacy of each stage, they also assess their behavior and preferences.

Do you regularly or completely write down or record your thoughts, feelings and ideas? How much effort do you devote to keeping a journal, a diary or notes on your inner self?

Are yourepparttar 130388 type of person who looks for and analyzesrepparttar 130389 contradictory desires inside yourself or do you tend to notice a distinction between your desires and intentions?

What do you use to practice consciousness development or strengthening activities? In what ways do you structure your time to engage in meditation, martial arts, crafts or improvisational theater kinds of activities?

Logical Action-Step Four: Empower Their Shifts To Change

You can add power to your group through practicing techniques which enable people to discoverrepparttar 130390 ideas, approaches and solutions hidden within them.

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