Life Lessons, A Three Step Process

Written by Sue and Chuck DeFiore


I have come torepparttar conclusion that no matter what you want out of life there is a three step process.

The first step is to make a decision. You need to decide if you want to lose weight, stop smoking, save money, find a compatible mate, spend more time with your children, start a business, volunteer… you getrepparttar 123012 idea. Whatever it is you want to do,repparttar 123013 first step is to decide and I mean really decide that you want to do it. Just talking it to death is not making a decision, makingrepparttar 123014 effort and moving forward after makingrepparttar 123015 decision is. So first, write downrepparttar 123016 decision you have made.

The next step isrepparttar 123017 big one,repparttar 123018 big “C” and that is to make a commitment to your decision. The commitment isrepparttar 123019 stumbling point for so many. They talk and talk aboutrepparttar 123020 decisions, I’m going to lose weight, I am going to start my own business, I am going to stop smoking, etc.

A commitment means takingrepparttar 123021 steps to fulfillrepparttar 123022 decision you made. Making a plan to move forward. If your decision is to spend more time with your children, decide what days and time you will spend with them and make up a list ofrepparttar 123023 things you could do with them. Or if you decide to volunteer, make a list of your interests, and then match that to a organization that needs volunteers.

How to Have a Good Day

Written by Garland Van Dyke


How to Have a Good Day

Is it Possible? Each of us would love to have a good day as often as possible. Life may be pressing in on us: not-so-rewarding relationships, stresses at work, financial issues – you knowrepparttar story and you can fill inrepparttar 123011 blanks with your own version. What many may not be so aware of is that you can have a good day in spite of your circumstances.

Just what is a Good Day? First of all, how would you define a good day? I think most people would say that feeling happy is a good way to describe a good day. Others might sayrepparttar 123012 feeling of accomplishment they get when completing a task would make their day. Pleasant surroundings are important to some. Whateverrepparttar 123013 impetus forrepparttar 123014 feeling, it comes down to being satisfied with life. Some people are this way naturally, others are not so fortunate.

Steps to Having a Good Day Tryrepparttar 123015 following exercises daily to overcomerepparttar 123016 “yech,” and move toward “Yes!”

1. Wake up with God – Spend a few moments, upon waking, to considerrepparttar 123017 goodness and nature of God. Thank Him forrepparttar 123018 countless blessings He has given you.

2. Expect a Good Day – As you go about your morning routine, before you leave home, determine that nothing is going to get you down today. Imagine your day going well – see it in your mind.

3. Giverepparttar 123019 Gift of Goodness to Others – Greet everyone you meet with a smile. Speak to them and wish them a good day. Find reasons to like people. Do specific acts of kindness to others. Help someone when they need help, before they ask for it. Tell people you like them. Have and express an open heart to others.

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