By Catherine FranzWhen you read a letter from someone, we are immediately transferred into their world, experience, and physical reality. You can capture
same feeling by writing letters to yourself or about other people in your journal. Letter writing is
easiest form to use in journaling. On occasion, you might have already dabbled in writing letters in your journal.
There are three major benefits to journaling with letters. First,
experience helps organize
event more clearly in our mind. Second, letter writing makes it easier to see cause and affect sequences of our actions. And third, because of its intimacy, it loosens up our writing style.
Whether you have or haven't experienced letter writing previously, here are a few ways you can expand
experience.
Step 1: Compile a list of people who you want to write a letter to. You can do this as a journal entry and mark
page with a post-it note.
Step 2: Select a letter style, purpose, before you begin writing. Since there are various types of letter writing styles, let me present four types that I have found most helpful and have received
most positive feedback in my workshops.
Style 1: Milestone letters. Writing about milestones is about picking an event that changed your life. Whether
milestone was minor one or one that turned you around 360 degrees does not matter. Even
smallest ones have truth to be released. The milestone will have either altered your way of thinking, change your relationship with yourself or others, or even shaken your physical or spiritual beingness.
By writing about a milestone, you weed through and determine what is important in your life. Additionally,
exercise helps you understand what formed
person you are today and explains what shifted that path.
Style 2: Release letters. Release letters allow you to vent and express your deepest emotions. This style frees buried energy, in turn, allowing you to think and feel through things, rather than keeping it corked. Please note that your experience may not always lead to a resolution, however, it does lead to change. You can't help but clean house of those leftovers.
Here are a few examples on how you can use release letters.
Example: Have you ever finished a conversation with someone that ruffled your feathers or left you still hearing their words like sounds of chalk going backwards across a blackboard? The conversation tumbles repeatedly in your mind for hours, even days. This is a perfect time to write a release letter. Set a timer for 10 minutes and let it rip across
page.
What you do with
release letter afterwards isn't important. If you feel comfortable leaving it in your journal, do so. If you prefer to use separate paper and burn it, do so. If you prefer to tear it out of your journal later, do so.
Example: You can use this same exercise to curb over spending. This process came to me years ago when I was an accountant giving advice on how to curb over spending.