When I tell you what I heard you’ll be able to laugh at what you believe is your own lack of confidence.I couldn’t believe it. Sunday, in a queue, in my local food-store an Olympic athlete stood behind me, chatting to another Olympic athlete. I looked at contents of my shopping cart and wondered, which item I could get them to autograph! That is until I overheard them talking…
You see, I thought only you and me suffered from confidence problems. I thought we were only ones who’d looked at a guy and thought he’d never feel attracted to a women like us. I thought we were only ones who felt unworthy of going for better job. I thought we were only ones who over ate. I thought we were only ones who talked ourselves down and felt like we don’t deserve anything nice. But what I discovered is that we’re not.
Standing in that queue on Sunday taught me that an Olympic athlete has gold medal of lowest confidence, and, to be honest she can have it!
And then on Monday I get an email from a friend who has moved into boardroom – a top level job, for which she’s been given all perks. When I asked her how it was going she said, “I feel like a fifteen year-old in an adult’s playground. They’ll find me out any minute. They’ll see I’m no good.” Then I heard this…