Launch Your Success

Written by Pam Murphy, B.S., RRT


Are you happy with your situation in life? Or do you find yourself wondering if “this is all there is”? If you’re wondering you’re a step ahead of lots of other people, who trudge daily to a 9-5 job working to make someone else rich, coming home inrepparttar evening to dinner and then mind-numbing television until they fall asleep, only to wake uprepparttar 123144 next morning and repeatrepparttar 123145 same safe, comfortable rut. Very little personal growth can take place in and dreams of wealth are not attainable when life is lived in a safe, comfortable rut.

It’s so easy to dorepparttar 123146 same thing everyday. And it’s safe and comfortable to dorepparttar 123147 same thing everyday. But if you don’t take action then you’re always going to have what you have right now.

Do you want to change your life? Do you want to liverepparttar 123148 life of your dreams? Do you want to haverepparttar 123149 freedom of having your own business? Do you want to fire your boss?

Then STEP OUT OF YOUR BOX.

So you ask, How do I do that? First you have to decide what you want. What is important to you? When you dream of a better life what EXACTLY do you dream? Be specific when you answer this question. Start a success journal. Put your answer down on paper. What kind of business do you want? Do you want to provide a service or a product? Do you want a business which improves people’s lives? Why do you wantrepparttar 123150 business you want? How much money do you want to make? What GOOD will you do with your financial success? How will you give back to your ommunity? What is your business mission statement? Make a list of business and personal goals and specify dates by which you intend to reach each goal. Post your goals where you can see them everyday (i.e. onrepparttar 123151 refrigerator, bathroom mirror, your bedroom door,repparttar 123152 dashboard of your car, on your desk).

7 Power Skills that Build Strong Relationships

Written by Steve Brunkhorst


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By Steve Brunkhorst http://AchieveEzine.com

A strong, healthy relationship is one in whichrepparttar 123143 partners show respect and kindness toward each other. The relationship forms a rewarding and enduring bond of trust and support. Here are seven power skills that will help you form stronger alliances and bring more closeness, authenticity and trust to your relationships.

1. Relax Optimistically

If you are comfortable around others, they will feel comfortable around you. If you appear nervous, others will sense it and withdraw. If you are meeting someone forrepparttar 123144 first time, brighten up as if you've rediscovered a long-lost friend. A smile will always berepparttar 123145 most powerful builder of rapport. Communicating with relaxed optimism, energy and enthusiasm will provide a strong foundation for lasting relationships.

2. Listen Deeply

Powerful listening goes beyond hearing words and messages; it connects us emotionally with our communication partner. Listen to whatrepparttar 123146 person is not saying as well as to what he or she is saying. Focus intently and listen torepparttar 123147 messages conveyed behind and between words.

Listen also with your eyes and heart. Notice facial expressions and body postures, but see beneathrepparttar 123148 surface of visible behaviors. Feelrepparttar 123149 range of emotions conveyed by tone of voice and rhythm of speech. Discern whatrepparttar 123150 person wants you to hear and also what they want you to feel.

3. Feel Empathetically

Empathy isrepparttar 123151 foundation of good two-way communication. Being empathetic is seeing from another person's perspective regardless of your opinion or belief. Treat their mistakes as you would want them to treat your mistakes. Letrepparttar 123152 individual know that you are concerned withrepparttar 123153 mistake, and that you still respect them as a person. Share their excitement in times of victory, and offer encouragement in times of difficulty. Genuine feelings of empathy will strengthenrepparttar 123154 bond of trust.

4. Respond Carefully

Choose emotions and words wisely. Measure your emotions according torepparttar 123155 person's moods and needs. Words can build or destroy trust. They differ in shades of meaning, intensity, and impact. What did you learn when listening deeply torepparttar 123156 other individual? Reflect your interpretation ofrepparttar 123157 person's message back to them. Validate your understanding of their message.

Complimentrepparttar 123158 person forrepparttar 123159 wisdom and insights they've shared with you. This shows appreciation and encourages further dialogs withrepparttar 123160 individual. A response can be encouraging or discouraging. If you consider in advancerepparttar 123161 impact of your emotions and words, you will create a positive impact on your relationships.

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