LIVIN' ON SOMEDAY I'LL by Terry L. Sumerlin
One of
nice things about our 47-year-old barbershop is that we get to see customers go through
various stages of life. In some cases, we even give first haircuts to those whose grandfathers got their first haircuts at J.B.’s.
It’s quite interesting to watch
little fellows, as they become accustomed to
new experience. Generally, we find they get more worked up over
second haircut than they do
first. Yet, after they settle into
routine, they start looking forward to playing with
toys and to receiving gum or a lollipop after their haircut. Then they simply display
happy, carefree disposition of little boys. They don’t worry about being happy. They’re just happy. At this stage of their lives,
hokey pokey is pretty much what it’s all about.
However, as these little boys become teenagers, their upbeat attitude often changes. Some of them become infected with
same attitude that plagues most adults. It’s an attitude that postpones happiness through a “someday I’ll…” approach.
With such a mindset a person feels that happiness will come someday, when certain conditions are met. The boy (or girl) may feel that happiness will occur when he graduates. Then
thought changes to, “When I go off to college.” In college, he wishes he could get through, and get on with life. Then he realizes that, for happiness, he needs a JOB to go with his Ph.D. Following that, he would be happy if he could just get married, have children, own a business, get out of debt, retire or travel. Someday, everything will be great!