Jesus' Birthday: Sacred Children Series - 2 of 3

Written by Skye Thomas


Jesus' Birthday Sacred Children Series - 2 of 3

I had visions of my daughter for about five years before she finally showed up. She turned out exactly likerepparttar little girl in my dreams who had haunted me all that time. I was so very glad to see that she was alive and real. I always thought she must somehow be more magical and special then other normal kids.

Her older brother had told her about reincarnation when she was only two years old. She would later yell at me during her tantrums, "Next time I'm born, I'm not gonna be your daughter!!!" I'd always laugh at her and say, "Oh yes you will! You have to be my daughter forever and ever!" She'd storm off to her room until she was done being angry about whatever it is that little girls get angry about.

She always acted like an old woman who was wiser than my son and I were. We had just sort of gotten used torepparttar 123312 baby inrepparttar 123313 family behaving asrepparttar 123314 old one. When she was three she asked me one day, "Do you know why I was late?"

As I continued messing with my makeup and fixing my hair inrepparttar 123315 bathroom mirror I asked her, "Late for what?"

"For being born."

She had been due on Christmas Eve and instead had decided to show up on New Year's Eve. "Why were you late?"

"Well," She replied quite matter of factly. "It was Jesus' birthday and I didn't want to leave early."

I was a bit taken aback, "Who told you about Jesus?" I'm not a traditional Christian and hadn't told my children anything aboutrepparttar 123316 traditional organized religions yet. We didn't have any family or friends around who would have told her of such things. How inrepparttar 123317 world did she know about Jesus?

"Jesus is my friend. He lives in heaven with Michael and Cracker."

"Who's Michael and Cracker?"

She looked at me like I was silly for not knowing as she said, "Michael's my friend. He's going to help me find my new dad. Cracker is a clown and goes like this." With that she started rolling around and doing somersaults and trying to do cartwheels. Then she stopped and looked up at me and said, "They're still up in heaven playing with Jesus. When I get done with this life, I'm going back up there to play and I'm not coming down again."

"Why? Don't you like it here?"

With a rather bored look on her face she said, "Yeah, but I've already learned all my lessons and I only came because you wanted me to."

"Are you upset that I pulled you away from your friends?"

"No, I love you, so I came back. But I'm just not coming back again after I'm all done helping you this time." With that, we pretty much established that she was indeedrepparttar 123318 old soul caretaker ofrepparttar 123319 family. We kind of already knew that.

Overrepparttar 123320 next couple of years, she would prove over and over that Michael was helping her to find her new dad. I was a single parent longing for my soulmate to come find me. In reference to my love life, she knew things she had no business knowing. She was told about things before they happened. Michael was always telling her secrets aboutrepparttar 123321 men I was dating. Michael was always right. She seemed a bit bored byrepparttar 123322 whole thing.

Say What? Pay A Buck

Written by Chuck Bauer


Say What? Pay A Buck!©

For four years, I served as a vice president for a Dallas based marketing and advertising firm. One of my responsibilities was to teach monthly sales training classes with up to 50 students at a time. Our product was very, very expensive, and by no means an easy sale. The clients were very particular, as they were owners of large companies accustomed to doing business with salespeople with a highly skilled level of communication.

During our monthly training sessions, one skill that was taught, practiced and encouraged wasrepparttar ability to more effectively communicate by usingrepparttar 123311 proper vocabulary. Words were eliminated that created a negative connotation inrepparttar 123312 subconscious, as well as foul language and words considered vulgar. “Think before you speak”. “Increase your connection with your client by speaking properly.” “Listen, ponder, and then respond.” They were taught not to adhere torepparttar 123313 old school thinking of “mirror what your client does,” that “ifrepparttar 123314 client uses vulgar language, you should too.” Our findings wererepparttar 123315 polar opposite of this theory: ifrepparttar 123316 salesperson took great care in their use of language and exercised a professional vocabulary,repparttar 123317 client responded favorably. Most felt their salesperson would take great care of their account, which naturally resulted in more sales.

Many ofrepparttar 123318 students asked what constituted improper language. I would usually reply, “if you have to repent about it, don’t use it,” or “what would your parents say to you about that word?” or, “how would you feel about your child repeating it?” These discussions usually came up in role-playing situations. In many cases that would settle it, yet I knew that these examples were just part of bringing students to a higher awareness.

I knew there had to be a better way to increaserepparttar 123319 awareness and make superior vocabulary a habit. After a lot of thought and attempting various exercises, I beganrepparttar 123320 “Say What? Pay A Buck! program.

It’s very simple. Atrepparttar 123321 beginning of each training, I would detailrepparttar 123322 highlights ofrepparttar 123323 program. “No vulgar or foul language is allowed, no negative connotations, or negative words.” Ifrepparttar 123324 guideline was violated and a student was caught by a classmate,repparttar 123325 student would Pay a buck! Each training participant was given two choices:

1.If they didn’t want to participate, they must staterepparttar 123326 intention up front and be excluded, no harm no foul. 2.The “fine” (bucks) collected would be paid out in one of two ways:repparttar 123327 class could reward each other for superior vocabulary duringrepparttar 123328 training or, atrepparttar 123329 end ofrepparttar 123330 week,repparttar 123331 fines would be donated to a charity.

The results were interesting: I never had anyone decline to be part ofrepparttar 123332 Say What? Pay A Buck! program, and about 90% of allrepparttar 123333 training classes would donaterepparttar 123334 fines to a charity.

The program then expanded into a “situational awareness” campaign, which placed emphasis on certain situations that would arise duringrepparttar 123335 training. In turn,repparttar 123336 guidelines ofrepparttar 123337 Say What? Pay A Buck! program produced some significant skills resulting in each class graduating with a higher purpose and confidence level.

So out comesrepparttar 123338 “Buck Bucket,” which is a large one-gallon glass jar with a handle and lid, deposited inrepparttar 123339 middle ofrepparttar 123340 training room (a constant reminder duringrepparttar 123341 weeklong training). In case you were wondering,repparttar 123342 “best” class using this system paid nearly $75.00 -- in one week!

Now thatrepparttar 123343 basic idea has been explained, here arerepparttar 123344 specific guidelines forrepparttar 123345 Say What? Pay A Buck! Program:

Words subject to a Buck: Any vulgar words ”Yeah” ”Yeah but” ”But” ”Whatever” “Problem” ”Try” ”Possibly” ”Maybe” ”I dunno” ”If” ”Hey” ”Hey you” ”Can't” ”I'm busy” ”Um” Add your own

Situations subject to a Buck: Complaining Negativity Bad attitude Justifying Laying blame Arriving late forrepparttar 123346 training Being late from a break Not following specific instructions and/or guidelines Add your own

Words subject to a Reward: ”Appreciate” ”Respect” ”Agree” ”Okay” ”Recommend” ”Because” ”Yes” ”And” ”Challenge” ”Congratulations” Add your own

Situations subject to a Reward: Makes requests instead of complaining Gets it Great presentation skills Great communications skills Displays extraordinary listening skills Sets good examples Accepts responsibility Going out ofrepparttar 123347 way to help others Displays out-of-the-box thinking Has written goals (and proves it) Admits mistakes Add your own

Here are some examples of howrepparttar 123348 program would work:

#1. In communicating with a potential client during a role playing situation,repparttar 123349 salesperson continually usedrepparttar 123350 word “but.” Pay a buck! forrepparttar 123351 word “but,” yet what do we replace it with? Usuallyrepparttar 123352 words “and” or “yet” would certainly suffice as a replacement for “but.”

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