Subtitle: Your Values determine your Motivation and Focus, and your Focus determines your progression, results, and success. by Kenth Bender
© 2003 Kenth Bender
It is seldom
lack of goals that causes failure, it is more often lack of connection between your values and operations in business or in life or whatever your intentions are. Between these dimensions your motivation is floating around to and fro, and maybe you are surprised that you are not reaching a higher degree of motivation to be continued.
You shouldn’t! When your pattern goes: Values-Operations-Motivation-Focus- Goals-Progression-Results=Success. Then, You Should be surprised!
Your first question to ask: Do operations, businesses, services, or which ever area you intend to enter, do they agree with my values? If they don´t, quit or don´t enter that field! If they do, make your decision, enter area, set your goals, and get started!
We have learned for hundreds of years, that when we feed our minds with suitable thoughts, we will reach deeper, wider, and higher. Or we can begin to feel smell of no-progression and no-success. So why is destruction and misery so dominant in our media?
Is it because of well known cynicism, to tempt viewers, listeners and readers? Or is it actually to let us know what´s going on around world? Is it to keep us updated with reality? If so, why do we end up with that? Why restrict ourselves and create our own limitations?
Why stand there and observe at sideline, frozen as fool on hill, be sorry for, and complain as all this happens in front of us? How would it be if we turned around 180 degrees? That´s not truth that media is concentrating on “negative news” it´s only our focus and perceptions? It is easier to be influenced by seeing, hearing, and feeling whisper in wind or storm and conflicts in business or world, if words, pictures or sayings are “threatening.”
It is much easier to become scared, worried, or to feel uncomfortable, since we can´t actually handle our emotions. Is that why we think media concentrates their focus on “negative news?” Or is it all about our focus and our relations to subjects? So then, 98-99% is positive news and 1-2 % is just negative. Is that correct?
Would it be more “fair” to say that our perceptions have such a power and affect us in such a degree, that we can´t control our emotions? Is that why we experience world filled with so much destructions and miseries?
When I first saw a list on Internet of “the secret words you have to use when you copyright” I became surprised. Who is s/he who would like to unmask “secret words” and share that with competitors?
Well, I learned that these words had a built-in power because they enter our subconscious. When secret words are gone with wind, they aren´t “secret” anymore. (It might be a case for FBI or CIA?)
Dear reader, you can view these secret words in most of sales-letters around net. A great number of net-makers know this and use them daily. But power is gone, secret words have been drained to their emotional power.
When someone releases a new idea, or relates to a specific subject or topic, spiced by gurus or authorities, it often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and we´re on track once again.
The secret words are only secret during time you write them, and it´s only you as a writer who knows what words are “secret” because secrecy is gone when readers meet them. The secret words are just words themselves, and all words are more or less hypnotic, depending on what context and how you use them.
Do you belong to those of us with immense challenges in our lives? The privileges, businesses, or life opportunities, seem to be on our top ten agenda. And parallel we do have “different worlds” to relate to which affect us. Sometimes we turn around 180 degrees and pretend different subjects do not even exist. On other hand we ask questions, questions, and more questions. Sometimes we presuppose that things are a certain way without asking any questions, without any proof, and we experience that our life becomes more like an unanswered question.
Right now we have an Internet era that, as many have told us through net, still is in beginning. What are you focusing on? Do you ask questions about content or mini- sites? Do you have September 11, The War in Israel, Iraq Issues, Political dynamite subjects, violence, miseries, starvation, rapes, robberies, murder, national or international etc…in your memories or focus?
What is your focus? Is it important and vital to let your subscribers get free offers from your site? Is it important that your subscribers mostly have to pay for your info or services? Where do you direct your customers focus?
Is it important to know that what you focus on, that is where you are mentally? At that place you have your thoughts; your brain is listening, and sends you away to that target.
