It Takes A Lot Of A Little To See The Good Times Roll

Written by Richard Vegas


Have you ever wondered why some people are just naturally successful? Why success just seems to fall on them with everything they do? You know.. The guy withrepparttar green thumb! And, everything he touches turns to gold.

Picture Perfect Luck!

Well, there's no such thing. Luck or if you prefer "happenstance", does have a way of falling on us from time to time. But, I don't think anyone is trying to live a life of daily luck. If they are, they have some tall explaining to do. Cause, it ain't working!

You see, it takes a lot less effort to succeed than to fail. Let me explain! Fromrepparttar 123505 time we begin going to school at six years old, we are bombarded with knowledge. Everything they can possibly throw at us is crammed in our heads forrepparttar 123506 sake of learning. To make us smart!

And, that's all a good thing. The downside to it is this; we carry that attitude and habit with us all through our life. We try to learn a little about everything so we can be informed. Have you ever heard a radio talk show host that said something you knew was not true?

For A Feather In His Cap!

There this guy is onrepparttar 123507 radio talking about a subject you are an expert in and you knowrepparttar 123508 guy is full of bananas. He is talking torepparttar 123509 whole city, giving them erroneous advice, maybe doing some people harm, and you think, how can this bozo say that?

Here isrepparttar 123510 situation. He's trying to learn a little about a lot. Every time we try to learn a little about a lot, we are depending on luck to bail us out.

And that's what our radio talk show host is doing. He tries to learn something about everything so he will appear informed, and make his listening audience happy, and never can become an expert in anything.

I only make this analogy because I hear it happen allrepparttar 123511 time. I'm certainly not picking on Radio talk show hosts. I only make illustrations in my articles to strike your thinking, not to criticize anyone.

Make No Bones About It!

It takes less time to succeed than to fail when you concentrate your thoughts, efforts and motivation on becoming an expert in a desired project. When you are learning a lot about a little in this fashion, you quickly become an expert and success is quickly to follow.

When you choose to followrepparttar 123512 other path, and learn a little about a lot, you slowrepparttar 123513 process to success in anything you're trying to learn. Seems obvious, because you're learning too many different things.

Success is guaranteed if you chooserepparttar 123514 lot about a little approach. But, you could seriously hinder your success in anything if you fail to recognize these universal principles.

Ten Ways to Beat the Heat

Written by Susan Dunn, THE EQ COACH


It'srepparttar dog days of summer (inrepparttar 123504 northern hemisphere) whenrepparttar 123505 temperature goes up (and has been up for a while) and tempers can flare. Learning to manage anger is an emotional intelligence competency and a process of personal awareness and growth.

1. Understandrepparttar 123506 physiological process and how it effects you.

It's called affective neuroscience, and you'll find it fascinating. Check it out! Take an EQ course that coversrepparttar 123507 basics ( http://www.susandunn.cc/courses.htm ) so you understand what's going on and how it works within you.

2. Learn your hot buttons and what triggers your temper.

For each of us it's different.

3. Learn what causes stress in your life and eliminate what you can.

Work with your coach to remove obstacles, reframe problems, meet goals and lessenrepparttar 123508 frustration in your life.

4. If it's beyond your control, let go and let God.

5. Develop some healthy outlets for your anger such as whacking weeds, hitting a tennis ball, meditating, going to a support group or practicing yoga.

6. Learn how your diet affects your disposition.

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