Unconditional love In this journey in life we often are called upon to love others unconditionally. How does one do that? I feel it starts with loving
yourself unconditionally. Now about two years ago I made a commitment
to myself to be authentic. How is that connected with my journey in
learning to love myself? Well, it is definitely first step in
loving myself. I had to ask myself if I placed conditions on myself of
how I would behave to be able to receive my own self love? Of course I
did, some times my expectations were not apparent but they were there.
I would love myself when I lost ten pounds. I would love myself when I
succeeded in my business. I would love myself when you fill in
blanks. I am sure you have a lot of those expectations of yourself in
your life too. Next I had to take risk to be open and vunerable to who I really
was with no preset expectations and still unconditionally love myself. This took getting to know myself in a whole new way. It meant loving
the dark and light sides of me. We all have dark sides but it sure was
easier not to look at dark side. Then I was suppose to love
dark things I saw in myself, yeah sure. That took a bit of doing but