Now here is a topic you WON'T see everyday because many peopleare either embarrassed to talk about it or don't want to admitthe truth about themselves.Can your family actually be jealous of an inanimate object?Well sure, look how many people complain that:
You spend too much time on that tv?Why don't you just marry
tv !!You are always working on that car, you love that car more thanme!!
Yada, Yada, you get
idea.
We may have all at one point in time said one of those words,so why should this be any different for
computer.
With
computer, you can do so much with it, whether you areoperating a business or not,
possibilities are endless, sotherefore a lot of time can be spent on
computer and youmay not even realize it.
Remember when
internet first became popular, and
newswould talk a lot about how many people spent so much timegetting "hooked" that their marriages, and family relationshipswere suffering.
Employers had to put out tons of memo's and new rules regardingemployee use of
internet on Company time.
How many times when you were bored at work did you findSomething to do online. Check your email, play a game, surf andshop, etc.
The plain and very simple fact is that
net is veryaddictive, I can easily have my mind set to take care of onetask on
computer, and next thing you know an idea pops upto surf, and by that time a few hours have passed...Now what was I supposed to do in
first place??
It is almost human nature to worry about these things, but itdoesn't have to be this way.
Just as how you can have a good friend that you spend a lot oftime with and maybe a spouse gets jealous,
same can happenwith a computer.
Of Course, I am not just talking about spouses,
childrencan have those same feelings.
If your child needs some help with homework or something ingeneral but you are always putting it off because you have todo something on
computer, those feelings can erupt.Anytime you are not trying to balance your daily tasks, thenthis can be a problem
Just because YOU have a computer now doesn't mean that you arenow Information KING /QUEEN almighty.
There are still some things that
computer can't teach us...If your family absolutely cannot handle
amount of time youspend online and they resent everything about it, then that istime for extra help, a counselor of some sort of anyprofessional that you can find to help find out why it seemslike they are not happy when you try to be happy.
If they don't care what you do online, but are there to ask youhow much money you have in Paypal, then its time to get themmore interested in YOUR business.
Incorporate all
benefits of your business to them, let themknow of any and ALL parts of your business that your family maywant to know about.
"Well you know now that I have my own business, then we candeduct this and that on our taxes"
"Well you know now that I have my own business, we may be ableto qualify for items at a wholesale price"
"Well you know now that I have my own business, my new clientcan give you a great discount on their product since they lovemy work"