Is Fear Holding You Back?

Written by Al Martinovic


Is fear holding you back? As a kid I remember playing ball once with a group of other kids. One kid in particular got angry with me for reasons I can't recall. But I do remember very vividly what happened next!

Standing only five feet away from me, he took a tennis ball, reared back, and threw with all his might at my face!

I calmly put my hand up and caughtrepparttar tennis ball with my right bare hand ... only inches from my face. The kid was in shock as to how I was able to catch that ball as were five other kids standing nearby. Heck... I even shocked myself!

In amazement they asked how I was I able to catch that ball to which I replied: "I don't know!"

As I look back on it today, I now knowrepparttar 121321 answer. I had No Fear! The slightest bit of panic andrepparttar 121322 ball would have surely hit me inrepparttar 121323 face. I had No Fear! That is why I caughtrepparttar 121324 ball.

Selling "Ideas": How Ideas Transform Non-Buyers into Customers

Written by Jill Konrath


A few months ago my friend was inrepparttar midst of web site redesign. Her son, who had just left a web design firm to start his own company, was doingrepparttar 121320 work for her. Several times she suggested that I might want talk to him.

Believe me, it wasrepparttar 121321 last thing inrepparttar 121322 world I wanted to do! After just spending tons of money and time on my own site, I wasn’t one bit interested in talking to Andrew. What I had was “good enough” for awhile. Sure there changes I wanted to make, but they could wait. Besides, doing business with your friend’s kid is dangerous - what if he did a lousy job?

With a gracious smile, I politely declined her offer of assistance. “Maybe in a year or so,” I said in my nicest, most discouraging manner. She finally droppedrepparttar 121323 subject. Needless to say, I was relieved.

Imagine my surprise when I received an e-mail from Andrew a few weeks later. I openedrepparttar 121324 message and began reading. Sure enough it started, “My mom mentioned ...” “Poor fellow,” I thought, “He must really be desperate for business.”

“I took a look at your web site,”repparttar 121325 letter continued, “and I have some ideas ...”

I was surprised - selling ideas is a high level sales skill. Andrew was new at this, but he had checked out my site and spent time thinking about my business. I was downright curious too. What ideas did Andrew have for me? I had to learn more. I read on. He explained them, but being a non-tech savvy buyer, I was somewhat confused. He started to lose me; I quickly reject any sales pitch cloaked in techie terminology.

Then, what I read next blew me away!

Andrew told me he had copied several pages from my web site onto his. He had actually maderepparttar 121326 recommended changes so I could ‘see’ and ‘test’ what he was talking about. He gave merepparttar 121327 URL link.

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