"The meeting of two personalities is like
contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction,
both are transformed."
-C.G. Jung
Rings have been exchanged as a symbol of
bond of marriage for so long, and in so many different cultures, that
origin of
practice is obscure. Certainly,
circle of a ring represents undying love and
continually renewed vows of
married couple. Circles have long been archetypes for not only timelessness, but also wholeness and homecoming. The circle also speaks to
constant round of
heavens, as well as
eternal return of
seasons, marked by cyclical ritual and celebration.
In addition,
circle in rock art, sacred stone arrays, and astrology represents both
Sun and
Moon, themselves astrological and alchemical symbols for
masculine and feminine aspects of
cosmos. This correspondence with
Sun and Moon is emphasized by
frequent practice of choosing gold for one betrothed and silver for
other, as gold and silver are
metals long associated with
Sun and Moon respectively.
Rings in general have a deeply rooted magical significance. Enchanted rings figure in many ancient folk tales. Incantations and spells for
protection of
wearer of rings are common motifs. Today, in traditional religious ceremonies, Christian and otherwise,
wedding rings are blessed by a minister or priest, thus continuing
symbolic practice of imbuing rings with protective powers.
The widespread tradition of embellishing
plain gold or silver wedding band with various designs and patterns has been known since at least 700 AD, in both Pan-Hellenic and Celtic cultures. The quite ancient symbol of
ouroboros,
serpent which consumes its own tail, was a theme used for wedding rings made of iron in Rome. The ouroboros itself is a symbol of
oneness of creation and destruction in renewal, and
life principle which timelessly feeds on its own inspiration. It also represents
hope for a lifelong marriage union that’s continually renewed.