All of us have knowledge, expertise, and experience that others can benefit from. This is one of
reasons we play some of
roles in life that we play: leader, trainer, teacher, coach, mentor, and more. We all can contribute to other’s success with our expertise. Unfortunately, some things keep us from doing this as successfully as we could.This article will outline several of
things that get in our way and suggest ways to improve our ability to succeed in having our expertise used successfully by others.
Ignorance
Here is a fundamental truth - most of us don’t recognize how much we know. When we’ve done something for a long time, or read about an idea in 21 places, we assume everyone knows that information. This just isn’t true! Our familiarity and deep understanding gets in our way, because we assume others know what we believe to be obvious.
The first key to getting your expertise used is to proclaim it to yourself. Recognize that what you know is significant and valuable. Without this recognition you won’t know what to share if asked.
Attitude
Before you go too far down this “Man, I’m smart” mental path though, recognize that arrogance is
next stumbling block. Certainly, we need to recognize our expertise. Of course we need to value what we know.
But none of this makes us better than
other person. My advice? Lose any budding arrogance.
When we are arrogant about what we know, our advice is more about an opportunity to show what we know, than it is about genuinely helping others. When we are confident we can focus on
other person’s needs. Be confident in what you know and always be willing to learn more.
Focus on being generous but helpful in your knowledge sharing. By remaining confident in your knowledge and keeping your focus on
other person’s needs, you will have your attitude in
right place.
Memory
Often
challenge we have in sharing our knowledge and expertise is that we don’t really remember what it is like to be a beginner in this area. Even once we recognize
value of what we know, we take shortcuts in explaining it to someone else.