IS IT A GOOD IDEA TO ROOM WITH A FRIEND?Written by dan the roommate man
On subject of moving in with a friend, I really don't have much experience. I still live with my folks. The way I see it, why move out when I have free housing and free food here at home? I'm only 18, so I'm still trying to save money. But if I did move out, I definitely would not move in with a friend. On contrary, I haven't had much luck with long-term friendships anyway. I've seen many come and go, but only one true friend has lasted. I don't want to ruin that by moving in with her. Let me tell you why.There are many, many reasons I can give you. But I'll start with this one. Surely, everybody has a best friend. Surely, everyone realizes that if you're with them too long, they begin to irritate you. Now think about what it would be like to live with them. You'll begin to notice little things they do that can be nerve-racking. Whether it's biting their nails, constantly flipping through TV channels, or always brushing their hair. In case of living with them, maybe you didn't know that they snore loudly, or that their bodily functions could smell so bad. Those are just little things. Did you ever think about bigger and more important issues? Think about rent payments, electricity bills, and water bills. I've had some friends that were pretty bad at keeping a job. Even if they did have a job, they were never there. If they can't keep a job, they definitely couldn't keep up on payments. Sooner or later they'd be mooching gas money off you after they've carelessly spent what little money they had on candy bars, pizza, or video games. I'm sure everyone has seen scenario on TV and in movies. Your roommate is party animal, while you on other hand, have your nose in books. That can really happen. Your friend could have tons of people over helping themselves to your stashes of food and listening to loud music while you're in back room trying to study for exams next day.
| | HOW TO NEGOTIATE A BETTER LEASEWritten by dan the roommate man
Is it possible to negotiate better terms on your lease? It could be worth a try. What do you have to lose? Here are a few tactics to try:* Ask landlord how many vacant units are in building. * Bring a competitors ad with you when you view apartment. * Ask for a “move-in special” if building is ne or under construction. * Ask for a two or three year lease (if you need a longer than a typical one year lease) with current rate locked in for duration of entire lease. Be careful of this. Some two year leases can come up for an increase at end of first year. * Point out needed repairs in apartment. This is time to mention that you feel that you could live with it for a reduction in rent.
|