Do you get stressed out at
thought of going to work every morning? Does
thought of spending eight or more hours at work each day get you all wound up and sweaty? Do you constantly find yourself wishing that Monday morning were Friday evening?
Do you feel emotionally and mentally stressed out just thinking about your job?
If these feelings have nothing to do with your ineffectiveness at work then you are probably in a hostile work environment.
What makes a work environment hostile varies largely, but it is commonly attributed to having a bad boss (this could be an understatement), co-workers who drive you up
wall, and an ineffective Human Resource Department, among other things.
The following are a few survival tips to help you hang on to your job and survive in that hostile environment until
tide turns in your favor.
Work on yourself.
As annoying as
situation may be, learn to contain yourself. Develop an internal coping mechanism like counting to ten before you respond to an annoying remark or insensitive comments. Draw strength from a higher power if you must, pray, meditate and do whatever it takes to get yourself together, calm and composed.
Remind yourself why you are at
job.
Why are you working at that company? Are you there for
money, experience or for personal fulfillment? Whatever
reason, let
objective you want to achieve give you
strength to survive each day.
Don’t mix business with pleasure.
If you can help it, draw
line between your private life and your life at work. Sometimes unnecessary socialization at work can be
ammunition that makes your environment even more unbearable. A little gossip at
copy machine with a co-worker can be
beginning of a nightmare.