How to be decisive?Written by ajaypats
The more alternatives, more difficult choice.The first step to getting things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want.It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.The self is not something ready-made, but something in continuous formation through choice of action.A decision is nothing more than a wish until you act on it. The more quickly you act on decisions you make, more powerful and effective those decisions will be. Every moment you wait before taking action makes that action less and less likely. The moment you decide is moment to start putting real substance behind your decision.
| | How to look at disappointments constructively?Written by ajaypats
Success isn't permanent, and failure isn't fatal.It is possible to fail in many ways...while to succeed is possible only in one way.You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try.Don't be disappointed by a failure. It can be a positive experience. Failure is, in a sense, highway to success, inasmuch as every discovery of what is false leads us to seek earnestly after what is true, and every fresh experience points out some form of error which we shall afterwards carefully avoid.You always pass failure on way to success.A minute's success pays failure of years.Success is ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.Disappointment When you suffer a disappointment, it hurts. It hurts enough that it can powerfully motivate you to find a better way.
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