Someone I know maintains that "motivational words are great coming from philosophers, but that's because they're not in
real world."Abraham Lincoln certainly was in
"real world". So was Henry Ford. Napoleon Hill, Anthony Robbins, John Kehoe, and so
list goes on.
Certainly, for most of us,
words we read have little impact on us and our lives. Here I hope to offer another way to look at words, and hopefully give
value of what words can mean with our goals and our lives.
The enormous amount of motivational material available - books, articles, motivational quotes - can (and does) help us to develop a positive attitude. But this does not occur by reading them as a novel or short story, that is, reading it once, and then never returning to
material.
When we use
concept known as spaced repetition, which is
reading of material repeatedly, but with breaks in between, words, and in particular motivational words become a powerful aid. This has an exceptional effect on our subconscious mind (and also works well with learning new material). How much effort is there in that?
To use an example, consider
following motivational quote: "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change
way you think about it." Let's consider how these words can help us to develop a positive attitude, and as result make us more content.
"If you don't like something, change it."
Example, are you in a job that absolutely drains you mentally, and emotionally? Have you seriously looked at changing jobs? And here
key word is "seriously". Do we really investigate all our options? Do we consider dropping in salary (in
short term), but have work that stimulates us? Do we make a concerted effort to look for other positions?
Now for
second part. "If you can't change it, change
way you think about it."
Do we have any control over
petrol price? Do we have any control over getting a flat tyre? There is no way in
world we can change these occurrences by moaning about them.