How to Use Discouragement to Motivate Yourself

Written by Peter Murphy


Ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel so discouraged that even one more day of frustration will be too much too handle?

Everyone gets discouraged at times only there are a number of key differences between people who keep on going and those who give up:

1 Focus On Your Goal Not On Your Problems

One of my mentors is a highly successful property developer and he loves solving problems. All day long he can take on one problem afterrepparttar next and just keep going.

How does he do this when most people would feel overwhelmed?

He understandsrepparttar 129415 importance of focus. He never loses sight of his goal and his goals so excite him that problems are nothing more than stepping stones torepparttar 129416 achievement of his outcomes.

If you are feeling discouraged it is very likely because your focus is on what has not worked; your setbacks and your fears.

Discipline your mind to focus on your goals and discouragement will fade intorepparttar 129417 distance.

2 Ask For Help

You do not have to deal with everything alone. Ask for help from someone who is qualified to help you and act on their good advice.

Two minds are better than one especially when your mind is full of discouragement.

And, you will feel stronger knowing that someone else is backing you, keen to see you succeed.

You Can Quickly And Easily Solve Your Problems

Written by Peter Murphy


Today I just wanted to write you a quick note to encourage you. Why? Because even as you are doing your best to be motivated there will be days when it all seems too much.

No matter how challenging life gets bear in mindrepparttar following three points and you can solve any problem you face.

1 Your problems are not personal

Most of our problems can be solved right away once we learn repparttar 129413 correct strategy. Theories might help however often they will only allow you to understandrepparttar 129414 problem without giving you a solution you can put to good use right away.

Be alert to resources that show you practical strategies. A breakthrough is possible sooner than you think once you find and use an effective strategy.

2 Your problems are not pervasive

When things are not working out and you feel like giving up -- stop! Look for aspects of your life that are working to remind yourself that not everything is falling apart. It is unlikely that every single one of your relationships is in trouble. It is highly unlikely that motivation is an issue for you 24 hours a day.

Look for opportunities to learn and improve a little at a time. If you can take baby steps and make just a little progress each day you will be amazed at how far you will progress overrepparttar 129415 next 6 months.

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