I’m known in my family as
original Christmas Elf. I’ve always loved Christmas and thought it was created just for me. And this even when for many years I held jobs that escalated dramatically during December. I thought I’d share ten ways to make most of this wonderful season, not because I’m any sort of expert, but because I love it. I like to learn from someone who loves what they teach, don’t you?
1. It’s all about warm feelings.
You are creating memories for yourself and for those around you. Stay in moment and don't dwell on past occasions, because this one coming up will be “the best Christmas yet.” I have said that every year!
2. Bake, bustle and bedeck.
Yes, it takes work, but like labor (as in childbirth) it’s one of times when your work really pays off big time. The point is that it is different, so let it be different. Fill house with smell of ginger, chocolate and cinnamon. Go out in yard, cut holly and greens and drape them everywhere drapable. Put reindeer horns on dog, mistletoe in office break room, a big red bow on mailbox, and definitely a big wreath on front of your car. And while you’re at it, make a tiny scarf or tiny Santa cap for “Jack” on your antenna. Wear a Christmas tie, Santa earrings, a decorated sweater and jingle bells on your ankles (use dog collar). Bustle, do more, get in spirit. Yes, you’re busy. You’re busy doing wonderful and fun things, and your heart can be full of people you’re doing this for. Know what I’ve learned? You could be just as busy preparing for your mother’s funeral — same deal – food, houseguests, cleaning, travel, in-laws, worrying about budget, arrangements. Get it?
3. Spread good cheer.
Many people do have a hard time with holidays. If you don’t, let your light shine on corners of others’ darkness. When I hear someone say, “I can’t handle this,” or “I’m overwhelmed,” or “There’s too much to do and I’m tired. Aren’t you?” I bellow out good and loud -- NOT ME!
4. It’s only “commercialized” if you let it be.
Everything in life is “commercialized”. Or not. If you're worried that it is, take a break and see what you can do spending as little as possible. You'll learn some interesting things about yourself and others.
5. Christmas works on any budget.
Yes, it’s hard if you’re really facing a “hard-candy Christmas,” but it’s at those times that we’re often at our best. Stripped of our “lucre power,” we are left with “us” – imperial, proud and true. In truth, things you DO with people, and way you ARE with people are greatest gifts you can ever give, and they are increasingly rare.
6. The perfect gift?
Giving of yourself. It requires no money whatsoever. What’s demanding about going out and buying her a sapphire ring? On other hand, would you take time, effort, and empathy to create an occasion designed for her enjoyment, which for any man, woman or child would be a time of your unconditional, undivided, unadulterated attention?
7. Love yourself and love season, but focus on others.
