That is not as weird as it may sound. Consider following definition of a goal: "A goal is a future incidence or event that is consciously worked towards." With this in mind, it is perfectly normal to make it your goal to improve your relationship, and these seven goal setting tools can help you.

A great relationship is one of finest things life can offer. When you choose your partner and start on a full-time relationship, you look forward to a future of love, support, encouragement, communication and intimacy. We enter into relationships for many different reasons and with many different expectations. Often, due to circumstances outside your control, a relationship can become a little tarnished.

You recognize that all people are different and that even most compatible couple will have individual needs that differ at times. Using just seven goal setting tools discussed in this article takes a give and take approach. Partners in a relationship who adopt this give and take attitude often feel a sense of pride in modifying a need "downward" when they know it will satisfy and stabilize their partner and relationship itself. Mutual giving flourishes in an atmosphere of cooperation.

Seven Goal Setting Tools

Listening: Communication is key to a lasting relationship and listening is key to communicating. Being a good listener takes more than being attentive to your partner when he or she talks with you. Good listening is a characteristic of a healthy relationship. Give your mate full attention when he or she is talking. Listening without interrupting other shows respect and also builds trust. Sometimes greatest gift you can give someone is just to listen - with your heart. So listening helps to improve relationship in great way.

Small things: The small things are what constitute our existence. Once excitement your partner brings to your world becomes familiar, it's small things that thrill you both and that will keep you connected and turned-on for long run. Do small things you did when you first fell in love with your mate. Remember small things you did to show your love to your mate? But as time went by, you probably began to get weighed down with simply living life and forgot small things that made difference in beginning. Small things like a phone call in middle of day just to talk or say, "I love you", a handwritten appreciative note, flowers, gifts, and opening doors. Re-charge your relationship by consciously going back and doing small things that you did when your love first began to grow.

Give attention: When each person has decided to give of themselves to other, you form a reciprocating relationship of love, concern, and devotion. Consider your mate's interests more important than your own. Give attention to your mate's interests. All healthy relationships require consistent, ongoing, conscious attention to survive and thrive. It is a simple fact that whenever we give attention to something, we are choosing to create more of it.

If you are on a budget like most people are, you will have your work cut out for you. Try these 7 tips:

1. Ask around! Most low priced, but relatively good photographers are not spending money on big shiny ads in yellow pages or magazines. They rely heavily on word of mouth.

2. Figure out what poses you want and compare those to what is in photographer's portfolio. Find poses that are similar to ones you want and if those pictures capture feeling and excitement of moment, that photographer might be a winner.

3. Choose a freelance photographer. Yes, I said a freelance photographer. He or she has low overhead, therefore are less likely to cut corners to keep company afloat. And he will not have "borrowed" photographs for his portfolio from another more experienced company employee just to bolster his image.