How to Make Success a Habit

Written by Tamara Baruhovich


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Title: How to Make Success a Habit Author: Tamara Baruhovich E-mail: marketingplanet1@aol.com Word count: 916 November, 2004

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How to Make Success a Habit

Want to make success a habit in your life? If you’ve got determination, it may be simpler than what you think. All you need is a slight change in your thinking pattern. Changing your thoughts will change your beliefs, your expectations, your attitude, and consequently, your behavior. A change in behavior will eventually lead you to a change in performance. And when you perform at your peak, you succeed. It doesn’t matter where you are in life, or what you do for a living, if you just modifyrepparttar 103674 way you look at things,repparttar 103675 way you think about things, you can achieve success.

The following steps can help you developrepparttar 103676 habit of success:

1. Develop Real Desire. What is really important for you? What do you really want in life? Truly, if you had everything you ever wanted right now, how would that picture look? For some, it may be a brand new home, for others a brand new Porsche. Maybe you want more time with your family, work from home full time or a fancy vacation every few months. Whatever it is, you need to develop true desire forrepparttar 103677 things you want. This desire has to come not only from your mind, but from your heart, and it should be your driving force. Like a compass on a ship, your desire will guide you through rough waters until you get to your destination.

2. Get Rid of Ambivalence and Be Realistic. Ambivalence about what you want will undermine your success. Make up your mind, and be realistic about your desires. You may want to becomerepparttar 103678 best olympic diver, and that is fine if you’re 16 and have been diving since you were 2, but… how realistic is that if you are over 30 and have never taken a class in diving? Plan realistically when you think about your desire. 3. Use Your Desire to Get Motivated. Successful people use what they desire as motivation. If you want a brand new home, get a picture ofrepparttar 103679 house you’d like to own. Frame it and hang it over your desk and look at it every time things get though. It will help you see things from a different perspective, and will keep you motivated to move on.

4. Spell Out Your Specific Goals. Decide how you’re going to getrepparttar 103680 specific things that you want. This should help you determine what you need to do to get closer torepparttar 103681 fulfillment of your desire. Let’s say that for you to achieverepparttar 103682 home of your dreams, you need to save $25K for a downpayment. If you are like me, you won’t get to save that by working for somebody else. So how can you achieve that? By working on an independent venture, either to supplement your income or to replace it altogether. That should be one of your goals.

The Boy Who Cried Wolf Redux

Written by Ken Nadreau


You've probably heardrepparttar story ofrepparttar 103673 Boy Who Cried Wolf.

The problem is thatrepparttar 103674 child was looking for attention and

thought it would be fun to scream atrepparttar 103675 top of his lungs

that a wolf was nearby. Each time he did,repparttar 103676 entire town

came running to his rescue!

It worked twice!

But each time allrepparttar 103677 townsfolk came running to his field all set

to do battle with a big, mean wolf, all they found was a bunch

of sheep casually munching on grass.

The boy really felt important when everyone came running to his

aid!

However,repparttar 103678 third time, no one believed him. No one came

running when he screamed "wolf, wolf!!!"

Unfortunately forrepparttar 103679 young lad,repparttar 103680 third time was real!

There WAS a wolf andrepparttar 103681 boy was forced to fend him off all on

his own. And to make a long story short . . .

The wolf won!

Nowrepparttar 103682 moral of this story isn't about danger, nor is about

practical joking, nor seeking attention. Rather, it's about . . .

The improper use of manipulative motivation!

You see, by screaming "wolf!",repparttar 103683 boy created a sense of

urgency thatrepparttar 103684 people ofrepparttar 103685 town couldn't ignore. They had

to come!

You could almost picture them reachingrepparttar 103686 field in an

absolute panic, their adreneline pumping through their veins, eyes

bulging!

And you can pretty much guess how they felt when they discovered

that it was all a ruse!

Mayberepparttar 103687 first time they might have thoughtrepparttar 103688 boy was just

mistaken. A lot things go bump inrepparttar 103689 night, and sometimes

shadows play tricks on a person out there alone inrepparttar 103690 dark.

But twice?

How many times is one expected to react inrepparttar 103691 same way to the

same scam? How long will it take before people get wise to it?

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