So, you’ve met someone! Maybe at work, in a bar, on street, online .. it doesn’t matter where you met them, it’s where do you go and what do you do on your first date?
While going out for dinner or a film is always a popular choice for couples who are dating, as a first date, they can kill relationship before it has even started! Why? Well, if you to see a film, a three-hour date with a film that lasts two and a half-hours is not a good way to get acquainted.– hardly a good way to really get know someone!
And if you go out for a meal, all sorts of things could go wrong! First of all, you may find that after half an hour, you don’t actually like your date that much – and you will still have two courses to get through! Or, you may have left restaurant booking to your new date and they’ve picked somewhere completely unsuitable for your taste (eg you go to a steak house and your date is vegetarian ) and your budget (if you intend going Dutch)!
And, horror of horrors! The restaurant may dim lights and soften music, which can then make it look like you're on a romantic date – not an ideal setting if you are not sure that is what you want with your date!
So, what is ideal first perfect date? Well, it doesn’t have to cost a fortune. The most important thing is that it is fun, relaxed and gives you time to get to know your date. It should also be fairly short, so that you can make a swift exit if things don’t go to plan!
Generally, a daytime meeting takes heat off– so you have perfect excuse to dash off for a later ‘appointment’ if your date isn’t going smoothly
The following are some ideas that will help you set perfect stage for a first date ..
Lunch or going for a coffee is a great start!
It can last for just one coffee if it’s not going well or can last though lunch and afterwards when you go on somewhere else!