How to Deal with Discouragement and Develop Exceptional People Skills

Written by Peter Murphy


Ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel so discouraged that even one more day of frustration will be too much to handle?

Everyone gets discouraged at times however there are a number of key differences between people who keep on going and those who give up:

1 Focus On Your Goal Not On Your Problems

One of my mentors is a highly successful property developer and he loves solving problems. All day long he can take on one problem afterrepparttar next and just keep going.

How does he do this when most people would feel overwhelmed?

He understandsrepparttar 129678 importance of focus. He never loses sight of his goals and his goals so excite him that problems are nothing more than stepping stones torepparttar 129679 achievement of his outcomes.

If you are feeling discouraged it is very likely because your focus is on what has not worked; your setbacks and your fears.

Discipline your mind to focus on your goals and discouragement will fade intorepparttar 129680 distance.

Expect to learn by trying new things and to find out what works by making mistakes. Then keep adjusting your approach until you getrepparttar 129681 results you want.

I went from being shy with people to developing confidence and charm by trying new approaches day after day until I found what worked for me.

It is only because I knew what my goal was that I was able to deal withrepparttar 129682 frustrations and discouragement alongrepparttar 129683 way.

2 Ask For Help

You do not have to deal with everything alone. Ask for help from someone who is qualified to help you and act on their good advice.

Two minds are better than one especially when your mind is full of discouragement.

And, you will feel stronger knowing that someone else is backing you, keen to see you succeed.

When you think about it.

The only thing stopping your from getting from where you are to where you want to be is -- learning! Learning an effective approach.

Happy Talk and 3 Simple Secrets to Happiness

Written by Peter Murphy


What isrepparttar one thing you want more than anything else forrepparttar 129676 people you loverepparttar 129677 most? If you had a magic wand what would you grant your family and friends? What is it that everyone wants?

To be happy!

How can you make other people happy until you are happy? How can you be happy?

Lester Levenson, creator of The Sedona Method, discoveredrepparttar 129678 key to happiness. He searched for 47 years and nearly died inrepparttar 129679 process but he did find it. Do you want to know what it is?

Lester had a breakthrough after much soul searching and found out how to be happy only after reviewing his entire life. He spotted a common pattern, one that was present in every happy moment.

Whenever he was feeling love towards another person he felt happy. And whenever he felt any other feeling he was not happy.

Test this principle for yourself. Think of a time when you were blissfully happy. Did you feel loving at that time? This works for me every time. Is this easy or what? Simply amazing!

If this sounds too simple to work I know that you have not tested it for yourself. Turning on a light bulb is easy too only because someone else figured it out!

Now it is time for Happy Talk or how to talk in a way that makes your family and friends happy...

1 Be Happy Yourself

Spend twenty minutes asking yourself:

- who do I love most in my life? - what do I love most about myself? - what things do I love most in my life?

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