How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper HandWritten by Ruth Houston
How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain Upper Handby Ruth Houston © 2005 Too many wives with cheating husbands put up with their husband’s infidelity because they feel they have no choice, or they don’t know what else to do. If you’re in a similar situation, don’t despair. You have more power and control than you think. Don’t Be a Helpless Victim You don’t have to suffer in silence or be a helpless victim. There are practical things you can do to make best of a bad situation, and minimize damage infidelity can cause. You can prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for what lies ahead. You can take steps to protect yourself sexually, legally and financially. Best of all, most of these things can be done quietly behind scenes, without your husband’s knowledge. And they will leave you feeling empowered, rather than victimized. In long run, you’ll gain upper hand. Knowledge About Affair is Power - Find Out All You Can Knowledge is power. The first thing you should do is find out everything you can about your husband’s affair. For sake of your sanity and your marriage, you have a right to know. You also need to have certain information so you can decide what’s in your (and your children’s) best interest to do. Finding out need not involve hiring an investigator or buying fancy surveillance equipment. “Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs” can be a tremendous help. ( http://www.Is-He-Cheating-on-You.com ) This $29 book contains practically every known sign of infidelity, grouped into 21 categories so you can easily find signs that apply to your marriage or your mate. Most women are amazed at how much information they can find with help of this 192-page book, which also comes in e-book format. The more you find out about your husband’s affair, better equipped you’ll be to make intelligent decisions about how to handle situation. What You Can Learn From The Signs Of Infidelity You can learn a lot from kind of telltale signs you find -- how often your husband sees his lover, when and where they meet, who she is, where she works or lives, what her interests, habits, and hobbies are, how deeply they are involved, and more. Many of signs of infidelity are quite subtle. But once you know what to look for, they’re fairly easy to find. All you need are your own eyes and ears, your personal knowledge of your husband, and help of a good infidelity reference book. Did you find signs which indicate your husband is serious enough about “the other woman” to move in with her or ask you for a divorce? Do signs you found give any clues as to whether your marriage can be saved? Or does situation call for damage control? Do signs indicate that this is a workplace affair? Or is it an emotional affair? A cyber affair? A fling? Based on what you’ve discovered, can you devise a way to sabotage affair and get your marriage back on track? Knowledge is power. Analyzing telltale signs you find will definitely give you upper hand.
| | How Do I Wear Womens Suede Boots?Written by Brian Fong
Throughout time, women have had a love affair with footwear. Forget diamonds or furs – footwear has been and continues to be accessory of choice for many women from all social circles. Just look inside any woman’s closet and you are sure to find more than one pair of shoes inside. In fact, rarely will you find only one pair. You are more likely to find shoes for work, shoes for play, shoes for exercising and more types of footwear including several pair of boots and at least one pair of slippers. And almost every woman, at some time during her life, has owned at least one pair of womens suede boots .Now, womens suede boots are making a comeback. Throughout years, this type of footwear has come into and gone out of style which in fashion terms makes this style a classic. Look around and you will see that boots made from suede are everywhere; at playhouses, at chic nightclubs, in shopping malls, at beach and all places in between. There are so many trendy styles available and so many ways to wear womens suede boots that there is just not enough room here to list them all. How you wear a pair of womens suede boots really is just a matter of look that you are trying to achieve. If you are simply looking for comfort, a pair of neutral colored, ankle length boots will do trick. The natural color of boot will match any outfit. Don a few suede accessories such as a purse and/or a lightweight suede jacket and you will achieve a look that is comfortable and very stylish. If you are heading out for a night on town, you will want a style that looks good. Oftentimes women have to trade off comfort for appearance. Not so when you pair your outfit with suede boots. A tall length boot in black will give you a look that is sleek and sophisticated (and best of all, comfortable!) If instead you will be spending night watching latest hit movie that has been released on DVD, then a pair of suede boot style slippers will be right choice. Any look you are trying to achieve, whether it is western look, punk look, trendy look or outrageous look, can be accomplished simply by finishing off your outfit with right pair of womens suede boots.
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