How Well Do You Know Your Partner?

Written by Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSW


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Title: HOW WELL DO KNOW YOUR PARTNER? Author: Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSW Email: mailto:editor@overcoming-depression.com copyright: by Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSW Web Address: http://www.Overcoming-Depression.com Word Count: 692 Category: Relationships

How Well Do You Know Your Partner?

For my birthday last year my wife made up a beautifully framed picture of my name, and then underneath it she listed 32 positive qualities I possess. Needless to say, it was one ofrepparttar 130762 finest gifts I have ever received. Some ofrepparttar 130763 qualities even taught me about me. After that wonderful gift, my wife, son and daughter (kids are 6 and 4 years old) put together a similar "Greatest Daddy" list for Father's Day last year that warms my heart to this day. It lists both behaviors and personal traits of me as a father.

Today's topic is around this very thing… how well do you know your partner and how well are you known by your partner? Usually there's a passionate fire early inrepparttar 130764 relationship, which brings a desire to know everything about your new partner that there is to know. This is wonderful and a great way in which to become acquainted with one another. All good beginnings usually have many question and answer sessions. As you come to know each other at deeper and deeper levels, you become close friends.

There's a dangerous myth (maybe more than one!) floating around about couples. It's once you know all there is about him or her, that's all there is to know. The truth is that you grow, adapt and change allrepparttar 130765 time. We all do. Unfortunately, unless you and your partner take time to know one another as you grow over time, you lose touch with who your partner is. This leads to a sense of disconnection, andrepparttar 130766 distance which follows, can cost you your friendship. A couple's friendship is vital torepparttar 130767 long-term survival and quality ofrepparttar 130768 relationship.

Today is a primer for becoming re-acquainted with each other. It's not for scuffing, only for fun. Take time to answer each ofrepparttar 130769 questions below and set a date… yeah, that's right - A DATE, and plan to share your answers with each other over a nice evening out somewhere.

Feng Shui Monsters Under Your Bed

Written by Stephanie Roberts


Good feng shui often requires making wise decisions based on your specific circumstances, rather than blinding following an ideal rule. The feng shui rule for storing things under your bed is "don't do it." But for those who live in small homes every inch of possible storage space is precious. If you are faced with cluttering up some other area of your home with stuff that otherwise might be put underrepparttar bed, how do you decide what to do?

My preference as a feng shui professional is to keeprepparttar 130760 more visible, frequently used areas ofrepparttar 130761 home uncluttered. If that means storing some things underrepparttar 130762 bed, so be it, as long as it is done thoughtfully and appropriately.

There are two reasons why your bed is so important in feng shui. The first isrepparttar 130763 principle of proximity, which states thatrepparttar 130764 closer something is to yourepparttar 130765 stronger its effect will be. The second isrepparttar 130766 principle of duration, which means thatrepparttar 130767 longer you are exposed to a particular influencerepparttar 130768 stronger its effect will be.

If we were getting our eight full hours of sleep every night, we'd be spending a third of our lives in bed. Even with long days and not enough sleep,repparttar 130769 average person probably spends 25% or more of his or her time in bed. Keepingrepparttar 130770 factors of proximity and duration in mind, this means that anything that is close to you while you sleep will have a strong effect on you, either physically or symbolically.

Since you are probably well protected from below by a nice thick mattress, whatever you've got stashed beneath your bed isn't likely to be directly harmful. However, in feng shuirepparttar 130771 symbolic energy of an object or image is just as important as whatever literal impact it may have. If you are using your underbed area for storage, take a moment to think aboutrepparttar 130772 implications of whatever is down there, especially if you haven't been sleeping well lately. If you don't remember what you've stashed under your bed, it's time to take another look.

Here are some things that you ought to find another place for:

- Shoes underrepparttar 130773 bed can keep you "running around" all night even when you are sound asleep. No matter how many hours of sleep you get, you may never feel well rested.

- Exercise gear, workout clothes, and sports equipment are also less than relaxing. Unless you want to feel like you're "going nowhere fast" in life, don't store your treadmill, rowing machine, aerobic step underrepparttar 130774 bed. Tennis rackets (or other gear for competitive sports) can bring a competitive, adversarial energy to your romantic relationships. It's best not to have any kind of exercise or sports equipment inrepparttar 130775 bedroom at all if you can find another place for it.

- Books and work or school papers can have an intellectually stimulating effect; if you have trouble turning your mind-chatter off so you can fall asleep at night, make sure you are not sleeping on top of a lot of information. Plus, chances are good that if you're keeping that stuff underrepparttar 130776 bed it probably isn't at all current, so all that old information is also energetically holding you inrepparttar 130777 past.

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