How We Define Our Relationships?Written by Joseph Ghabi
How We Define Our Relationships?
We can fall into habit of complaining about our relationships, but do we really take time to evaluate them? Maybe not, because well, we’re always right! He or she never listens to ME or does things way I think is right (the human EGO speaking loudly here!).
First of all, we need to understand one thing – that we do not live in our parents or grandparents’ time. The "souls" of our generation are here to acquire as much life experience as possible in this one lifetime. What do I mean by this? When my soul decided to come back and integrate into this body, temple of my soul, I educated myself in spirit and prepared (in theory) for all experiences I would have in this lifetime. I decided to come back to understand these experiences by having to understand human emotions – anger, crying and all of other human frustrations – that went with experience. But in reality, this is an experience for my soul knowledge, for my forever soul evolution. Once this experience is finished, everything from that experience needs to be completed without leaving any residue of emotions, and then will be time to prepare for a new venture.
As humans, we rarely complete a relationship properly; often we hope that one day it might work out. Personally, I believe that once an experience is not working in first place, it will not work later. Unless BOTH, and I really mean BOTH parties are ready to give up their differences, our old patterns from that relationship, along with help of our sub-conscious, will bring same familiar events back into our life. Remember, even if we meet our soul mate, unless both soul mates are ready for each other, relationship will never work.
It’s important that we learn to cut our emotions after every experience in order to make proper room for next one. Once we leave a relationship, we cannot expect new one to be same. This just does not make sense! Things eventually evolve if you properly cut your emotional links with previous relationship, and you accept change into your life. In reality our soul will never allow us to go backward in our life except when our human mind decides we want to stick around and have same type of relationship again. Then we are falling back into our old pattern. Look at your relationships and see if there is a pattern that you keep running into, then accept this and, without any blame to yourself or other people involved, just feel blessed about what you learned and accomplished and wish best for all people involved – because what goes around comes around, multiplied!
Soul Mates - Do they really exist?Written by Joseph Ghabi
Soul Mates - Do they really exist?
Throughout centuries, story tellers, and people from different background and cultures always refer to their fascination in meeting one day their soul mates. Is Soul Mate a myth? Do they really exist? Or is Soul Mate a figment of our own imagination that can help keep our hope for a perfect relationship and keep our hope alive. Or is it an escape way for not handling or not looking at ourselves in such a way that we keep delaying our responsibilities and things can be fixed when we meet that perfect relationship with those Soul Mates. Everything is possible! It is up to you and me to decide bottom line of this puzzle.
If we talk in such metaphysics tone of words used, we will say we are all coming from same source, one soul, branched out into different ventures or experiences to achieve and in reality we are all Soul Mate. Maybe that’s true but I believe there is more into it than that!!
How do we define Soul Mates?
Soul Mates is another Soul that share same exact similar way of understanding as other Soul and in this lifetime so they decided to share their growth and understanding together. It does NOT mean Soul Mates have to be in a relationship to make it work. What do I mean by that? From motion that a Soul integrate into life through a particular family, geography, religion, or situation for certain reasons. I do believe we choose our family, we choose our religion, and we choose where we want to be born for certain that Soul itself will identify and in same time you will be aware of it one day if you are well attuned within yourself. We will not dispute reasons we go through that because we will have unlimited reasons here.
Let’s start with our choice of a family to be born with. If each one of us look deeper into our families there must be at least one person and many time there is more in our immediate family or cousin that we feel different with. That person can be your father, your sister, your niece, or your cousin. It really does not matter who that person but that person is your Soul Mate where you always enjoy being in their company, listening to them and mainly valued everything they say. Those experiences with Soul Mate we already started at young age. Then we grow up, how many of us we have one or two particular friends around us at school or where our parents moved to new neighborhood. I bet you everyone can relate to someone. And that goes on until we are adult and dating game started.