How To Overcome FEAR

Written by Dr. Joe Vitale

Dr. Joe Vitale's new book comes out this week. Here's a brand new article he wrote, which he is giving you as a gift to share with you, or (if you have one) your list and your website visitors. If you have any questions, let me know. -Jason Mangrum

"How to Overcome Fear" by Dr. Joe Vitale, Author The Attractor Factor -

I'm in Chicago attending a Dan Kennedy event. Atrepparttar first break a young man stops me, saying he is one of my subscribers and a big fan. I'm flattered. We talk. Duringrepparttar 105761 brief conversation, he confesses that fear is what stops him from achieving anything.

Interesting. Just that very morning I had breakfast with Paul Hartunian, famous publicity expert, when he told me, "There is no such thing as fear."

"There isn't?" I asked Paul.

"No. You are born with only two fears," Paul explained. "The fear of loud noises andrepparttar 105762 fear of falling. You lose those early on. Any other fears are created by you. They aren't real." "How do you get rid of fear?"

"Stop it."

"Stop it?"

"Just stop it," Paul said. "Say you have a fear of bridges. If I put one million dollars in cash onrepparttar 105763 other side and said you could have it if you walked acrossrepparttar 105764 bridge, nude, in front of a crowd of people, you'd do it. Why? Becauserepparttar 105765 reward is greater thanrepparttar 105766 pain. Makerepparttar 105767 rewards greater andrepparttar 105768 fears will vanish."

I toldrepparttar 105769 young man before merepparttar 105770 same thing.

I then went on to add that most people in business have a fear of success, or a fear of failure. "I was just in a seminar with Ted Nicholas," I went on. "Ted said he had failed many times, and what he learned is that nothing bad ever happens to you when you fail. Instead, you get life's greatest lessons."

Triggering Female Lust

Written by Mike Pilinski


Contrary to what you see every week on 'Sex andrepparttar City', women arerepparttar 105760 complete opposite of men in that,repparttar 105761 more *anonymous*repparttar 105762 sexual encounter,repparttar 105763 LESS gratifying they find it to be.

Unlikerepparttar 105764 fictional uber-slut Miranda, satisfying sex does not begin and end withrepparttar 105765 quest to find someone new to have an orgasm with. Forrepparttar 105766 vast majority of women,repparttar 105767 MORE connected they feel to their partner,repparttar 105768 more overwhelmingrepparttar 105769 total sexual experience is for them.

Justrepparttar 105770 reverse of typical male thinking, right? Men are intensely turned on byrepparttar 105771 thought of having sex with a woman for that very FIRST time, or by scoring a one-night stand with a perfect stranger, or perhaps fantasizing about being in a porno movie and having wanton sex with dozens of hot women he hardly knows. The common link between all these scenarios is that there is NO emotional bonding involved. Hell, there's hardly even an exchange of names! Forrepparttar 105772 man,repparttar 105773 more anonymousrepparttar 105774 sexrepparttar 105775 more *exciting*repparttar 105776 idea ofrepparttar 105777 conquest.

Howrepparttar 105778 two genders make use of (and even exploit) this knowledge of each other's romantic weakness, however, is an entirely DIFFERENT story. Women know exactly how to turn men on by manipulating this hardwired 'quirk' in their character that absolves them ofrepparttar 105779 need to actually know anything about a woman who has triggered his desire to mate. How? Simply by pushing this uniquely male "anonymous sex" button long and often... by acting sexy AND remaining emotionally aloof atrepparttar 105780 same time. The stripper,repparttar 105781 table dancer,repparttar 105782 whore. The molten hot stranger. Any persona will do -- and all are quite useful when their design is seduction!

Men, onrepparttar 105783 other hand, seem mostly clueless about how to turnrepparttar 105784 tables and pull offrepparttar 105785 same trick. In fact,repparttar 105786 prevailing feeling is that female lust is such a mysterious and unfathomable 'holy grail' so rarely encountered in real life that it's taken on a kind of mythical quality. I guess some women just have it for certain men... and not for others, and there's no understandingrepparttar 105787 reasons why.

But can female lust be triggered byrepparttar 105788 deliberate actions of a man? I say absolutely yes. Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but -- owing to differences in reproductive biology -- by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren't interested in a man's age so much because males remain virile well intorepparttar 105789 later part of their lifespan.

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