Just 2 nights ago my partner and I were watching a cricket game from Zimbabwe on cable. The team that was currently batting was leading by a huge margin in
1st innings but during
2nd innings were dropping out like flies. They were struggling to maintain their score and beat their opponents. My partner looked at me and said in disgust "What are they doing, trying to lose?" I looked over at him and thought to myself, "Wow! You're so right".
In an instant he had clinched many of our problems from a simple game, while several of us struggle to reach
pinnacle and fall short of our dreams.
Isn't it amazing that sometimes no matter how hard we try, it seems that we're always trying to lose instead of striving to win? It's like reaching a weight loss plateau and having no idea how we're going to get rid of those last 5 lbs.
I'm sure you've experienced this or know someone who has, for example, can't seem to earn more than a certain amount of money, who can't seem to lose more than a certain amount of weight, who can't seem to pass an important exam no matter how many times they've taken it.
We're trying to succeed and do
best we can but something is holding us back.
Are we trying too hard?
Are we afraid of something?
Why does this happen to us? My friends allow me let you into a little secret about ourselves, if it's okay with you.
Our minds are so conditioned to understand, accept and appreciate only what we know.
It knows that we earn a certain amount each year and no more. It knows that we can lose a certain amount of weight and no more. It knows that we can attain a certain level of success and prosperity and no more.
When that point is reached, unconsciously we tend to sabotage our early success and stop ourselves in our tracks from achieving more. This is Internal Resistance. It's these Resistance thoughts that stop you from doing what you want and can often show up as procrastination.