Be aware of resources that can be used to achieve your goals -

Everyone has a large number of valuable skills that are not often appreciated: ability to communicate and interact with people, ability to set priorities when scheduling tasks, and many other such abilities. Your abilities are valuable. They can help you get what you want. So give them consideration they deserve. Be proud of all of your abilities and skills. Take some delight in using them and they will stay with you and likely develop further.

Feel good when you succeed -

Savor successes that your abilities and your resources allow you to achieve. The more you enjoy your successes, more you will strive for and achieve success. It's a self perpetuating circle that brings rewards and happiness.

Ask for what you want -

Are you stuck in a rut? Do you seem to have same problems popping up time after time? What will it take to finally get you over your problems and into abundant life? Here are three biblical principles to help you get out of whatever personal problems you’re going through and on road to achieving life of your dreams.

Have you noticed that almost all of our problems stem from relationships? Either someone has hurt us or we lack relationships in our life, especially healthy ones. Sometimes other symptoms develop as a result of our hurt or isolation; such as addictions, depression, bitterness, anger, and loneliness. Then we get sidetracked working to resolve these symptoms instead of realizing there is a deeper underlying cause - that of unhealthy relationships.

It has been discovered that when a person works on living their life according to God’s overall instructions, their problems get resolved as a by-product. So, when we work on having following three key principles active in our life, then almost all of our problems get resolved.

The first principle is: when you develop a strong, deep relationship with God, then you will know how to build loving relationships with others. It is only through our relationship with God that our deepest desire for unconditional love gets fulfilled. No other person can fulfill this need except God. Since God is love, He has greatest capacity to provide us love we so desperately search for.

Since God never leaves us, we can stand firm in our relationship with Him. During our lifetime we will never fully uncover depth of God’s love toward us. So we have a lifelong pursuit in this love relationship. How close we get to God is up to us!

Once we experience God’s love revealed to us, then we can properly love others. We can quit expecting others to meet our deep need for love because we now receive that from God. Through our understanding of how God treats us (or doesn’t treat us) we learn how to properly interact with others.