How To Create Your Own Cult like Following Of Women

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How To Create Your Own Cult like Following Of Women By Derek Vitalio

How To Get Woman Into Bed at: Some of my students have this little problem. Some of them must resort to doing massive amounts of walk-ups: not because they get turned down byrepparttar women they approach, but because they couldn't keeprepparttar 126083 women they seduced interested in them beyondrepparttar 126084 first lay or two.

Through trial and error I've learned that picking up women is notrepparttar 126085 hard part. The problem is KEEPING them happy while you're keeping your other girlfriends happy. And being that you're just one person, you only have so much of YOU to go around. Some of your girlfriends may "bleed" off rather quickly if you don't pay enough attention to them. I wanted to find a way to keep women I had met around without much attention and still have time to seduce.

I was on a date with a tall, brunette Latina who I had met at a psychic fair. Sparks were flying and I knew that SOMETHING was going to happen that night but we were too far away to go to my place and her parents were at her house. So we found a nice, comfortable, secluded place inside a lifeguard shack and snuggled up inside. Pretty soon we were making out and it became more and more passionate (and romantic that we were atrepparttar 126086 beach, not to mention a little crazy since we could have been caught!)

Most guys at this point would've continued to escalate, but if you move too quickly you can freakrepparttar 126087 girl out. So I backed off, withdrew, and teased her a little until I made sure she was having fun again and then I pushed a little further. First kissing, then neck touching, then thighs, then strokingrepparttar 126088 area above her breasts, and so on in sequential order until I had my two fingers inside.

Pretty soonrepparttar 126089 clothes came off. (P.S. I don't recommend doing this in a beach lifeguard shack as you'll see in a moment.)

Okay, this is what you need to do to keep a girl crazy about you with minimal maintenance andrepparttar 126090 formula is pretty simple. In factrepparttar 126091 formula is simply this: berepparttar 126092 best lay she's ever had.

I repeat. Berepparttar 126093 BEST lay she's EVER had.

Give her incredible, mind blowing sex that she can't get from anywhere else.

Look at it this way. If you arerepparttar 126094 BEST she's ever had then you have a MONOPOLY on giving her intense pleasure. And what are monopolists famous for? Gouging customers and charging them a high price to maximize their profits sincerepparttar 126095 monopolist has no natural competitors. What if Evian wasrepparttar 126096 only company that you could get clean water from? You'd be forced - compelled - to buy water from Evian, even if they were asking $10 per liter.

If you have a monopoly of rocking her world with earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex, she will ALWAYS come back to you no matter how little attention you pay to her in between.

Of course, this is easier said than done. It took me a long while to figure out how to be a great lover myself. Because not only did I want to be a great lover to keep women coming back for more (read: booty call), but I wanted to have access to her very deepest fantasies.

So I came up with my own specific system that guys can use to ratchet up their sexual performances usingrepparttar 126097 best techniques out there (and many things I discovered myself) into one system specifically designed to keep women hooked around your little finger... for sex. That's Legendary Lover.

Is This Love or Emotional Dependency?

Written by Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

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Title: Is This Love or Emotional Dependency? Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D. E-mail: Copyright: © 2005 by Margaret Paul URL: Word Count: 703 Category: Relationships

Is This Love or Emotional Dependency? Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

One of my clients, whose ex-girlfriend recently broke up with him, asked merepparttar 126083 following question:

“I think I still love her, but is this love or just emotional dependency? Many times I ask myself if falling in love comes fromrepparttar 126084 wounded self because (for me at least) it feels as if I can’t live withoutrepparttar 126085 other person. When I give love fromrepparttar 126086 heart I don't expect anything back, but when I fall in love I think this is a different energy.”

Falling in love can come from two different inner states. When you fall in love fromrepparttar 126087 wounded self –repparttar 126088 ego self – you are in love with howrepparttar 126089 other person loves you. You are handing over torepparttar 126090 other personrepparttar 126091 responsibility for your self-worth and wellbeing, and if he or she does a good job of attending to you inrepparttar 126092 way you want to be attended to, then you may say you are “in love.” However, it is not so muchrepparttar 126093 person you love, but how he or she loves you. When it feels as if you can’t live withoutrepparttar 126094 other person, it is emotional dependency. The part of you that is “in love” is really a child or adolescent who is needy for love because you are not giving love to yourself or to others. There is an emptiness inside that you expect someone else to fill, because you are not taking responsibility for your own feelings of self-worth. You are attaching your worth to another’s love, which is why you can’t live without that person.

When you fall in love as a loving adult instead of as a wounded, needy child or adolescent, your need forrepparttar 126095 relationship is totally different. As a loving adult, you have learned how to fill yourself with love and define your own worth. Instead of needing someone to fill you and make you feel lovable and worthy, you already feel worthy and full of love. You experience this inner fullness because you have learned how to take full responsibility for your own feelings and needs, and you have learned to fill yourself with love from a Divine Source. This fullness overflows and you want to share this love with another person, another loving adult who is also filled with love. Your desire is to share love rather than to get love.

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