Rejection is a subject not far from our minds when we want to ask out that sexy woman or man. Once we experience rejection we are deprived of our self-confidence we feel small, worthless and most of all insecure. The fact is, being rejected hurts no matter who we are, we all have experienced it some stage in our life.

The way we handle rejection is totally dependent on our personality , way we were brought up , our first relationships with opposite gender etc..

Not so long ago when I worked in hospitality industry I really fancied this one particular girl. She gave me all right signs that she feels same. I did not really have courage to ask her out face to face as I thought she was out of my league. Don't get me wrong I ain't an ugly looking bloke but I just couldn't find right time. Eventually when I did didn't I make a total fool out of myself. As it turned out she was married. I thought someone just crushed my heart or tore them out of place. The way she said it with a smile she really brushed me aside.and being in a public did not help either. I could feel my face all red as usual. After that I felt a little bit uneasy around her every time I didn't know how to behave around her. I think she could sense it.

Of course women cheat just as much as men do. Both sexes are just as guilty when it comes to cheating on their partners. Many women who were surveyed said they cheat for excitement of it all.The thrill of something different in their life's.

Cheating causes too much pain and grief and if you have not experienced it firsthand. - It affects everyone! Saying no requires at times willpower to walk - no run away, action to back up what you say and truly caring about your partner or spouse feelings.