Have you been Rejected Lately?

Written by Norbert Lukacsi

This is one of our greatest fears when asking someone out. Do you fancy someone at work orrepparttar shop you visit? Sure we all have been there before. We fancy that someone but Yet we do not seem to haverepparttar 141856 courage to walk up to them and ask them out.Why? I am sure you have heardrepparttar 141857 word "Rejection".

Rejection is a subject not far from our minds when we want to ask out that sexy woman or man. Once we experience rejection we are deprived of our self-confidence we feel small, worthless and most of all insecure. The fact is, being rejected hurts no matter who we are, we all have experienced it some stage in our life.

The way we handle rejection is totally dependent on our personality , repparttar 141858 way we were brought up , our first relationships withrepparttar 141859 opposite gender etc..

Not so long ago when I worked inrepparttar 141860 hospitality industry I really fancied this one particular girl. She gave me allrepparttar 141861 right signs that she feelsrepparttar 141862 same. I did not really haverepparttar 141863 courage to ask her out face to face as I thought she was out of my league. Don't get me wrong I ain't an ugly looking bloke but I just couldn't findrepparttar 141864 right time. Eventually when I did didn't I make a total fool out of myself. As it turned out she was married. I thought someone just crushed my heart or tore them out of place. The way she said it with a smile she really brushed me aside.and being in a public did not help either. I could feel my face all red as usual. After that I felt a little bit uneasy around her every time I didn't know how to behave around her. I think she could sense it.

So being inrepparttar 141865 animal kingdom we cannot be attractive to all and be liked byrepparttar 141866 opposite sex.Never feel ashamed if you are rejected, move on.Rejection can come in many forms from a partner being unfaithful , calling off a relationship and it can come in small forms a date for instance who decides no to turn up which tells you that either they do not want to take things further or perhaps they were not interested in you after all.If you are onrepparttar 141867 receiving end of a rejection, keep things in perspective by relating torepparttar 141868 many aspects of your life.

But Why do we Cheat?

Written by Norbert Lukacsi

So how come we cheat? This question has been asked many times but there is no real answer why we actually do it.Some ofrepparttar men surveyed said they cheat because they can and can get away with it.What a croc!

Of course women cheat just as much as men do. Both sexes are just as guilty when it comes to cheating on their partners. Many women who were surveyed said they cheat forrepparttar 141855 excitement of it all.The thrill of something different in their life's.

Cheating causes too much pain and grief and if you have not experienced it firsthand. - It affects everyone! Saying no requires at timesrepparttar 141856 willpower to walk - no run away,repparttar 141857 action to back up what you say and truly caring about your partner or spouse feelings.

Cheating is a silly word It's culturally centered. It implies that we've violatedrepparttar 141858 rules ofrepparttar 141859 game of fidelity.

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