I'd like to put
spotlight on car accidents in a noncritical, observant way, so you can heal yourself. It makes me angry to see people walk away from one accident only to have another a few years later. As a healer, I don't like to see people in pain. And if you've been in an accident, you know
aftermath of shock, rage and terror, sometimes resulting in post traumatic shock syndrome. Why go through this experience again?Let's get things like this out of our lives. Let's take control of our personal energy. Here's
way.
The universe is mental. It responds to you
way you think it will.
The laws of physics are neutral. One plus one equals two and if you push your glass off
table it will fall to floor whether you are an average person, an enlightened person, a genius, a two year old in a highchair or eating your last meal on death row. The laws of metaphysics are neutral, too. We study them so we can use them to our advantage. They don't care how they are used.
Please understand, in a mathematical universe, there are no accidents.
The second principle is, there are no victims of accidents. Everyone is a volunteer. For this reason, I'm going to switch from victim and perpetrator to
projecting driver (perpetrator) and attracting driver (victim).
These principles may be new to you but if they're stirring something inside, read on. It's hard to contemplate when one has just been rear-ended, or -- in
case of a woman I know, broadsided nearly to death -- but this is no accident. Instead, this is a highly synchronized meeting of two people on
same wave length at precisely
same moment.
What are
odds that
two of you would meet at
exact same moment in time and space? Astronomical, wouldn't you say? You can change your energy. You can be safe on
road, on a plane and in an airport. There is power in what I'm going to tell you.
State of mind is what determines our wavelength. Actually, we have two minds:
rational and
higher mind. Normally we operate in
lower mind which has two parts:
negative and
positive. These tellk us why we should and shouldn’t do things but a decision is not forthcoming. It is
higher mind (the creative mind) which really determines our course in life.
The higher mind is described in
astrology chart - our human version of it -- by
9th house. It's called
place of long distance travel and it describes driving on
freeway as against tooling around
neighborhood. It's also
house of meditation because it is
long distance use of
mind -- far seeing, prophetic, intuitive, looking for patterns ....
If you drive on
freeway, you're in a meditative state of consciousness at least part of
time whether you realize it or not. To drive on
freeway, we look for patterns and spaces.
I've read for many people in my 25 years as an intuitive consultant, astrologer and spiritual teacher/healer. I've talked to people from their hospital bed and I learned a lot about this kind of energy during
years. I have read for a man who wrecked his own car and then totaled
rental car
very next day. He had no insurance and had bought none with
rental. I read for a girl who knew she would someday drive off a bridge and did so. This girl is now in a wheel chair for life. I am writing this article to wake people up!
The states of mind I feel put us on a collision course with a projective driver are these:
•Repressed hostility, anger or rage
•Repressed hostility, anger or rage
•Victim mentality
•Trying to do more than one thing at a time (multitasking)
•Being rushed or being late
•Overextended lifestyle
•Talking on
cell phone
•Separation from self through over activity and busy-ness (super mom)
•Living entirely outside
self, causing deep depression, self loathing, self hatred and even self destructive tendencies
Let's take a closer look at each of these.
•REPRESSED HOSTILITY, ANGER OR RAGE
If you aren't expressing your own emotions, someone will come right over and do it for you. Or do it to you, I should say.
Some of
"nicest" and "sweetest" people in
world are involved in collisions for this very reason. If they weren't so nice or so sweet, they might have been safer.
There are many socially acceptable ways to get out
aggressions we all feel (yes, even
nice and sweet ones). Please pick one and use it regularly.
•VICTIM MENTALITY
People with victim mentalities are accidents waiting to happen. Why is it
same people are robbed twice, rear ended twice, even raped twice?
Get out of
victim position. Go on a victim-free diet for three months. Do not read about, listen to stories about, watch movies or television shows, sympathize with or even think about any people or animals who are victims. If someone tries to tell you a victim story, get up and leave!
•TRYING TO DO MORE THAN ONE THING AT A TIME (MULTITASKING)
Have you ever tried to rub your head with one hand and pat your stomach with
other? A recent article on MSN Internet revealed that people eat, smoke, read, shave, apply makeup and have sex while driving.
Multitasking is becoming a way of life for some people and these are some of
most likely people, unfortunately, I'll peg for accidents in
years ahead.
•BEING RUSHED AND IN A HURRY
Being rushed and in a hurry already has us out of sync… with ourselves. When we are out of sync with ourselves, we are out of touch with good timing in all matters.
Many people who "run late" accompany this habit with a state of mind involving "Why do you do this? When are you going to learn? It's so rude to be late! You are so inconsiderate! Why did you have to make that last phone call? Can't you ever just be on time? …" Stop
chatter. If you're late, you're late. Get there alive.
•OVEREXTENDED LIFESTYLE
We are holistic beings in spite of ourselves. We are absolutely consistent in our behavior across
full range of our activities. If you doubt this, take some time to observe others first, because it's easier, and then yourself.
If someone eats fast and unconsciously, they also drive fast and unconsciously. And their sex is that way too!
•TALKING ON THE CELL PHONE
Talking on
cell phone is a function of
lower or rational mind. Driving on
freeway, as we know from earlier in
article, is a function of
higher or indifferent mind. These two minds can’t work together. It’s that simple.
•SEPARATION FROM SELF THROUGH OVER ACTIVITY AND BUSY-NESS (SUPERMOM)
What happens when you have an accident? You wind up flat on your back for awhile, staring at
wall and wondering how this could have happened to you?
Well, productively, let's concentrate on
first half of
sentence rather than
last. When was
last time you sat around and did nothing?
Accidents happen to many people who are so out of touch it takes a zap from
universe to get them back together with themselves for a little quality time. Many people grow to see their accidents as one of
best things that could have happened because it forced them to stop and think about where they were headed in their lives and to touch in with what's really important, especially in serious accidents where one's whole life flashes before them.