Thanksgiving began with Pilgrims, to give God thanks for their survival. For Christian family is a tradition of giving thanks, whether it be in a service, to each other, in testimony, song, offering, in a family circle, or in prayer. Though those words may be well intended, sincere, and heart felt ... perhaps we should also give thanks for "our" survival.
STONING: When one thinks they're doing God a favor by cutting you off at pass, silencing you, rooting you out of a position, or not letting you participate because you haven't conformed to their ideas for acceptance (leaving you on outside looking in).
FLOOD: When adversity hits, one after another, until you are so overwhelmed that you can feel yourself drowning.
TRIAL: Spiritual warfare; when Satan tries you through suffering and temptation (meant to slow you down, distract you, detour you from your calling, and even convince you to quit).
FIRE: Intense tribulation, going through great troubles, difficulties, or dangers (meant to weed out flesh and Satan's power over you).