Growth from Discontent ... Life's way of giving you a little push.

Written by Edward B. Toupin


That strange, gut-wrenching feeling you have is notrepparttar sushi you had for lunch. It's your soul trying to give you a nudge to do something. A word for that feeling is "discontent." Discontent is a state of not being satisfied or fulfilled in your current situation.

Of course, this same feeling can apply to a hundred different situations, from a work-related issue to a personal issue at home. But,repparttar 123488 resulting meaning is stillrepparttar 123489 same: "make a change." Some people listen to that feeling and change their life in such a way as to eliminate that feeling. However, some people that fall into discontent, but tend to remain in that situation as they find it a place of "same-ness" and "safety."

--- Souler Greenhouse ---

Discontent is actually a "souler greenhouse" of change. It isrepparttar 123490 first warnings you receive that things are not what they should be and that a change is required to correctrepparttar 123491 situation. Discontent comes when there is juxtaposition between needs and desires. Usually, you're pursuing a need, achieve it, and then continue to pursuerepparttar 123492 ideals ofrepparttar 123493 same need. This occurs because you don't know what to do once you reachrepparttar 123494 objective. However, once you achieve a need, you need to move on torepparttar 123495 next pursuit.

Many people find that discontent for a given situation is acceptable. For instance, discontent with your work might feel acceptable because you have to make money and care for your family. In this way, you learn to overcomerepparttar 123496 discontent by acceptingrepparttar 123497 obligations. However, while this may work, it is not necessarilyrepparttar 123498 route to take. Indeed, you might needrepparttar 123499 job, but this feeling is calling for an evaluation as some aspect ofrepparttar 123500 situation needs attention.

Discontent can provide you with either a reason to stay right where you are or a fertile environment from which to move forward. While it does provide a way forrepparttar 123501 Universe to bring attention to a situation, we sometimes become so accustomed torepparttar 123502 feeling that it becomes part of our life. In such a case, if we adapt andrepparttar 123503 discontented feeling is resolved, we will miss it.

--- Growth ---

Growth from discontent is an amazing change. Again, comparing torepparttar 123504 greenhouse, it can either smother you, or help you grow. However, change from discontent is something that you have to execute consciously, because discontent can also provide you with a safety zone. By accepting discontent in one part of your life, it can spread into other areas of your life. You can become satisfied withrepparttar 123505 feeling because it becomes familiar. However, you end up working on parts of your life in hopes of resolvingrepparttar 123506 feeling when you find that, once that part of your life has changed, you still feelrepparttar 123507 same.

Rebuilding Oneself ... the Universe's Basic Training

Written by Edward B. Toupin


I remember Air Force Basic Training. My Training Instructor not only wanted to teach merepparttar military way, but he also wanted to break me down so that he could rebuild me according torepparttar 123487 needs ofrepparttar 123488 military. These are two ofrepparttar 123489 underlying premises of your first few weeks, or months, of your time inrepparttar 123490 military. Actually, I enjoyed it, but then Air Force Basic is only between six and eight weeks. The other branches have much more extensive training programs that can last for months.

However,repparttar 123491 idea here is that, I have been thinking about various challenges presented to myself, and others, overrepparttar 123492 years and comparing these challenges torepparttar 123493 state ofrepparttar 123494 individual atrepparttar 123495 end ofrepparttar 123496 challenge. It is most interesting to note that, like Basic Training, you are either strengthen and ready for your mission, or you're washed out or pushed back torepparttar 123497 beginning to re-experience your training.

--- Challenges ---

I have been hit with many challenges throughout my life; however,repparttar 123498 one thing I can say, now that I made it outrepparttar 123499 other end, is that I am much better for it. Of course, life continues to throw odd little challenges every day; however, I have come to realize that it is my responsibility for creatingrepparttar 123500 circumstances forrepparttar 123501 challenges and my choice as to whether I want to deal with them.

Any time that you remain quiet and still, challenges will rarely appear. This, because, you're not moving and your space in life is stagnant. However, true challenges only occur once you decide to move forward. When you move, you create an imbalance that must be rebalanced, thus creating friction. Once you gain some momentum,repparttar 123502 friction becomes inconsequential and balance returns to accommodate your new state of forward movement.

--- Education ---

Every time you move toward a goal,repparttar 123503 Universe acknowledges your movement and immediately establishes a path of travel. It literally definesrepparttar 123504 future events and situations based on your current decisions and actions. However, this path can be seen asrepparttar 123505 curriculum necessary to prepare you forrepparttar 123506 ultimate objective. Indeed,repparttar 123507 Universe won't tell you whether you should pursue this path; however, it will throw lessons inrepparttar 123508 way to ensure that you learn what is necessary for your ultimate chosen objective.

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