Good Friends, Great Life!Written by Lin Miao
While I was in high school, I developed this habit of always watching people and how they responded to things. When I’m walking, when I’m talking, and when I’m eating, I love to watch people. I don’t know why I do it, but I think it’s just my curiosity of wanting to understand all of various human characteristics.About two years ago, in one of my high school math classes, I met this unbelievably down to earth girl (let’s call her Sarah), but she always seemed to be sad. Everyday when I had class with her, I would try to take a look at her when I can to observe and perhaps better understand why she seemed so sad. Later as I began to talk to her I soon found out why and I was shocked: she always gone out with wrong guys and some of them raped her. I was in disbelief. I have so much respect for girls and when I find out that other guys mistreat girls I often get quite angry about it. However, in this case as I kept on talking with her, I couldn’t believe why she let things like this happen. She seemed so strong, so focused, so appreciative of life, but she let herself hang out with wrong people. Life is a series of light and darkness. We all want to be in sunshine, feeling warmth, that great feeling when you’re out in sunshine. At times cloudy storms tend to disrupt that light, making us feel uncomfortable and uneasy. However, we can always get back in light; we can always push darkness away: light and darkness cannot be in same room.
| | SHE REJECTED YOU:some reasons why it happened -what you can do...Written by Lucy Nadia Muyemba
There is just something that makes women NOT get attracted to men who have lower STATUS than themselves. There is always tension when a lady is taller than her man, she makes more money than him or when a guy is being 'led around' by his girlfriend or wife..SCENE 1 You ask lady where she would like to go.If she seems indifferent, make a decision: take her to a place YOU know and think she would like.If you don't, she won't see you as a leader. SCENE 2 If you are dating this lady who seems so beautiful, such great company and seems successful too, you think you like her A LOT. You ask her out a second time and she agrees. DO NOT: 1 tell her that you're beginning to have feelings for her 2. do not call her next day to ask her out again. You need to: give her a little space - let her 'miss' you just a bit.Let her pursue you. SCENE 3. You meet this nice babe and get her phone number and email address. You set a date and what? - she doesn't turn up. she was 'busy'.Call her tomorrow and she is still 'busy'. What happened? This 'babe' probably committed herself and later changed her mind... What to do? Give her a few days and then call again- confront her with her poor behaviour. If there is no change, move on.
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