Going To Another Country

Written by Jos van Doorn


That can happen. You're living in your own country. You're working like hell. But you keep on struggling. Nothing changes. No big money.

What can you do? Stay where you are and keep on working? Sure. You can. And with it you'll get real frustrated. You won't live long.

Is there an alternative? You bet there is. Go to another country. And there start all over again. Get your life in order there.

I know. That's difficult. It's difficult to decide to leave you own country and go to another country. You're scared to go away.

You seriously think about going to another country. And then you come up with a lot of reasons why you can't do that. Why you have to stay.

You're thinking about your family, aboutrepparttar house you bought, or maybe aboutrepparttar 101940 car you have. Must you leave that all behind?

And then what's going to happen to you when you are in that other country? Can you live there or must you be afraid of gangster and other criminals?

And then there is your job. You're very much frustrated. But you've got such a good job. You've been in that job for many years.

Don't think. Just go away. Of course you find a lot of reasons why you can't go away. That's a human nature. But there is no reason for staying.

Think about it. There is only one good reason. And that reason tells you to go away. You are fed up. You're frustrated. You want to change that.

Is it difficult to go away? Do you need a lot of money to go away? Must you make a lot of preparations to go away? No, no, no.

It's not difficult to go away. Just step on a plane and fly to that other country. You arrive in that other country and have a look around.

Do you need a lot of money? That depends onrepparttar 101941 country you pick. But in most countries you come a long way with $ 300.

How long do you want to stay in that country? Six months? So for staying there six months you only need $ 1,800. That's not much.

What preparations? Your house will not run away. Your car stays there. What is there to prepare? Insurances? Forget about them.

The only thing you must do is decide to what country you want to go. This is an advice I can give to you. Find a country different from your country.

Suppose you're living inrepparttar 101942 West. Then go to a developing country. That's what you can do still at home. Find a good country.

Find a good developing country where you can find a decent job. And whererepparttar 101943 standard of living is good. Go to that country.

Have a plan. You go to that country. At first you look around. You plan to stay there maybe six months. Go back to your own country after six months.

In your own country you can find a temporary job. There you can make some money. When you've got enough money then go again to that country.

Look further in that country. See what you can do. See whether you can find a job. See whether you can make a living there.

You have got a job in your own country. You've got a talent. Use that job, use that talent. And find a way to use it in that other country.

Believe me. That's all that it takes. Go to that other country. Find a job there. You will find a job there. And stay there.

Simply Your Life by Saying No

Written by Myrtis Smith


The average person lives a very cluttered life. We have too much "stuff" in our homes, too many commitments on our calendars, and our kids are involved in too many activities. All of this clutter is weighing us down. Things need to be organized and cleaned, planned and prepped for; its no mystery why people are so stressed.

Even scarier isrepparttar fact that we continue to add more. We buy more things that we donít have room to store, we volunteer for more committees, and we let junior find another sport to play.

The ideal solution to this predicament would be to advise you to spend some time clearing space in your life. Take a weekend and declutter your house. Reduce all of your involvement torepparttar 101939 3 things that support your goalsrepparttar 101940 most. And limit your children to 2 activities each. Somehow, I think that advice would fall on deaf ears. Instead I entreat you to simplify your life by refusing to take on any more activities. The word No can be very empowering.

There are 3 ways to say No:

1. No. This isrepparttar 101941 simplest method. Whenever someone asks you to do something nicely say No. No explanations are needed. No is a complete sentence. This also includes saying No to yourself when youíre out shopping and looking to start new projects. You must be consistent.

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