Goal-A-Phobic

Written by Hershey Wier


Journaling time today was a bit out ofrepparttar ordinary. I knew something was up when I felt an urge to use write in my journal using bold red ink. I honestly had no idea why I felt an inclination to use red. I never use red. My journal is filled mostly with inks of a soft pink, violet or green.

But today - red. Hmmmm.... When I journal, I usually let my mind go and write whatever comes to mind, regardless of whether it makes sense. Usually it's a few thoughts about something inrepparttar 123651 past, or something I need to get done in future. But today, we got right down to business. It was as if my hand were on auto-pilot, and my central processing unit was barking out orders. The first line went "GOAL SETTING AND GOAL GETTING MUST BE OUR MAIN GOAL." The rich, red letters mesmerized my eyes. Something clicked. A dialogue was forthcoming. A dialogue between my task oriented self and my procrastination oriented self. "Task" was trying to get some cooperation. "Procrastination" was up to its usual antics. The dialogue went something like this...

Procrastination: But what do you mean we need to do some goal setting? We've done a lot of stuff lately?! I need a break!

Task: Yes, we've done "stuff." How much of that stuff relates to our life goals? For example, that big proposal we keep talking about. If we're to get anywhere with it, we've got to start.

Procrastination: Oh, come on. The proposal can wait. I'll get that done in no time. You take a break and let me handle things. Before I get to that proposal though, I need to find where I've put a ton of my papers, files, addresses I need in order to get started. Yikes, I need to do all sorts of stuff. And before I can get to that, my desk needs to get cleared off. Oh yeah, andrepparttar 123652 kitchen sure could use a cleaning, and I need to pick out this year's Christmas cards, and...

Task: The household stuff will wait, and you know you have no plans to attackrepparttar 123653 kitchen anyway. It's an excuse. And, your desk is fine. We did a quick once-over yesterday. How much clearer does it have to get? We need to at least start. Any other excuses?

Procrastination: Well, I need to block out a big chunk of time. That will be impossible. You know how busy we are these days.

Task: Block out an hour.

Procrastination: We need more than an hour and we don't have it.

Task: Start out with an hour. Block it out on your calendar.

Procrastination: But...

Task: Now.

Procrastination: Alright. There. Saturday morning, 9:00 am. Happy?

Task: Not yet. What'srepparttar 123654 task we're going to work on.

Procrastination: The project proposal.

If It Looks Like A Duck And It Quacks Like A Duck.........

Written by Richard Vegas


Ok, gang; it's time to get our mental vision checked. Not your physical vision, that's not what I'm talking about. Mental vision, just like physical vision, can become cloudy. And then would you like to know what happens? Don't miss this.

You end up about as lucky asrepparttar only man in a women's prison with a fist full of pardons. Nah, I'm kidding, Or…. am I? :>) don't you get mad at me now.

Let's see, saidrepparttar 123650 blind man!

The two most common weaknesses of our physical vision are nearsightedness and farsightedness. To use an analogy we could say that these same two conditions are our biggest problems with mental vision.

A person who is mentally nearsighted is prone to ignore and overlook problems and possibilities that are distant. He is totally obsessed and focused onrepparttar 123651 problem and possibilities that are right in front of him.

He is oblivious torepparttar 123652 problems and possibilities that he might encounter inrepparttar 123653 future. To him,repparttar 123654 future seems about as important as a screen door on a submarine.

He couldn't care less aboutrepparttar 123655 future. He doesn't think or plan in future terms. The future to him is a whole new ball game because he can't see beyondrepparttar 123656 end of his nose.

Well, what about his cousin?

Ah, yeah. Onrepparttar 123657 other side,repparttar 123658 mentally farsighted person is prone to ignore and overlook problems and "possibilities" that are right in front of his face. He is totally oblivious to problems and possibilities that are about to eat him.

Have you ever heardrepparttar 123659 cliché, "if it were a snake it would have bit him"? Yep, that's our farsighted friend; a real mental giant.

He's somewhere off every day in fairy land; A dream world of Peter Pan and Disneyland. He wants to start out atrepparttar 123660 top of his company. He would never be happy cleaning toilets. The only job he would take is where he could start out atrepparttar 123661 top; never realizingrepparttar 123662 only job like that is digging a hole.

Can't seerepparttar 123663 forest forrepparttar 123664 trees!

Inrepparttar 123665 process of examining our mental vision, we need to develop both our far sight and our near sight. The advantages to a person who can see what is right in front of him are great. Are there possibilities all around you right now that you are overlooking? Are there things in your life everyday that you scoff at because they look like a Duck?

Fortunes were made off of a little thing called a paper clip. A fortune was made off of another thing called a bobbie pin; all because someone dared to not only see with their eyes, but, also to see with their mental vision.

Throwing Out The Baby With The Bath Water!

A mentally farsighted person would probably never have discovered something as trivial, yeah right, as a paper clip. Remember he is always off somewhere in never never land trying to discoverrepparttar 123666 Rock of Gibraltar. Now, this is assuming that his near sighted mental vision is all backed up like a toilet.

If he recognizes that some things that look like a duck and quack like a duck just might be a duck, then this guy could be crying allrepparttar 123667 way torepparttar 123668 bank.

Well, ain't that justrepparttar 123669 cat's pajamas?

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