In last week's article (http://www.whatittakes.com/Archive/Newsletter30to39/newsletter__36.shtml), I asserted that defining and living your life mission can in fact make it easier to attract your ideal relationship. That's because simply living your life mission automatically attracts your ideal partner.
Sounds simple, right? Well it is and it isn't. It's simple because people who are compatible with you will be drawn to you. But living your life mission is not always effortless.
I believe to live your life mission you need to consistently take three specific steps. These are:
1. Trust and believe in yourself above all else. Trust that what you have deemed as your life mission is exactly that. Trust this even when others tell you it's not so. Trust when people who are incompatible start to move away. Hold onto your life mission during difficult times and decisions. Use it as a guiding light when you are lost. Believe in yourself.
2. Reorient your life around your life mission. Does your job reflect your life mission? Does your community? Your hobbies? Your conduct? If not, start making small, incremental changes oriented around your life mission. Small changes are easier to integrate over time and will make most difference.