Formerly titled "When Should An Artist NOT Sign His Work".I was faced with this question some years ago.
Allow me to back up for just a minute. Years ago, I bought one of Zig Ziglar's books on how to raise positive kids. I first bought this book because, like many fathers, I wanted to know how to raise and discipline my son when
time came. Little did I know that this book didn't deal so much with
actions of
son, but more with
actions of
parents! It wasn't long before I started exercising certain techniques in that book, and noticed they were actually molding my son right before my eyes.
My son was not into drugs, didn't stay out all night and really never gave his mother and I any problems. Oh…did I mention that my son was only 5 years old at
time? What you are about to read might surprise you, but I feel that it very well could inspire some of you as parents, not to mention some of your children.
Because my son was an only child, he learned to pacify himself by either watching TV or doodling on paper. We made sure he had all
favorite cartoon movies children liked to watch. It wasn't long before we noticed that our son would watch TV for only a short time before he would go find his toys, which were
small characters in his movies. He would place these toys in front of him with crayon and paper close by, and continue to watch
movies while slowly trying to draw
characters.
One of
techniques that Zig Ziglar mentioned in this book -- I'll have to be honest here, its
only technique that really stood out in my mind; I can't remember
others, but I still have that book -- was to praise
child. But wait! It was to praise
child to other adults in such a way that
child just happened to be within hearing range. It's one thing to receive praise yourself, but to overhear your parents bragging on you to people on
phone or in
other room -- it seems to have a far greater impact. I think we all can relate to that, even as adults.
Back to
title of this little story. "When should an Artist NOT sign his work?" My answer is when he's only 7 years old, and his handwriting is larger than
picture he just finished. See, as we continued to praise Kyle for his artwork, it wasn't long before he was calling himself an Artist, (he believed it with his whole heart) because he overheard us call him that to others. I had already taught him to sign his artwork, because all Artists signed their work.
We had pictures of Darkwing Duck, and every cartoon super hero, pasted all over our refrigerator door. Then something happened. I particularly noticed one picture he drew with a pencil (not a crayon) before he signed it. The picture was of " Pinocchio," and he drew it while looking at
cover of one of his movies. I instantly fell in love with it and didn't want him to ruin it by signing it. (Remember, his handwriting hadn't had as much practice as his art ).