From the Chickencoop

Written by Ted Borgeas


Copyright © 2004 Ted Borgeas, All Rights Reserved Ted Borgeas, Author, 35 years Self-Coaching Yourself. Helps people get insight on Career & Life Transitions. E-mail: for free 30 minute introductory phone coaching session. E-zine: SELF-COACHING YOUR INTELLIGENCES. E-mail: ted@atborgeas.com website: www.atborgeas.com Phone: 619-235-9393, PO Box, 3022, La Jolla, CA 92038-3022

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The Story “Fromrepparttar 101438 Chicken Coop”™ Ted Borgeas Many years ago my grandfather, had a small farm and chickens. One morning he sent me out torepparttar 101439 chicken coop to collect fresh eggs. He became concerned when I didn’t return after a shot interval. When he came looking for me I jumped with joy, but he saw tears in my eyes and noticed that I was in an adjacent empty chicken coop, which could be entered only throughrepparttar 101440 same door asrepparttar 101441 occupied coop.

When he noticed my distress and asked, “What was wrong?” I told him tearfully, “that nasty rooster, who was now docile, in my grandfather's presence, came pecking after me and allrepparttar 101442 hens started cackling, which scared me, and I ran intorepparttar 101443 next coop for safety.” He took me by my hand and we walked right byrepparttar 101444 now quiet nasty rooster and comfortable nesting hens. We sat underrepparttar 101445 apple tree, and he relatedrepparttar 101446 following story. "Did you notice how that rooster and hens behaved when I came in? Totally different than when you first came in." I shouted, “The rooster and hens seemed to pounce on me.”

My grandfather then said, "That’s a new roosterrepparttar 101447 neighbor gave me. All your life you are going to come across people who will act like that rooster and hens. Only in different ways! It’s natural for that rooster to protect his coop and his hens. The rooster isrepparttar 101448 leader andrepparttar 101449 hen’s followers. Same with people! It doesn’t matter whether they are men or women. There will always be people who will try to lead your life and if you let them, you will become likerepparttar 101450 hens."

Beyond The Hype! Aren't you really in Partnership with Yourself?

Written by Ted Borgeas


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Beyondrepparttar 101439 Hype! Aren’t you really in Partnership with Yourself?

Most of us think of partnerships as being a two-way street that is with another person or an entity. I am referring to partnership within yourself. What better partner can you get to know, understand and trust than yourself?

Here are some criteria that may help improve your Self- Partnership.

1. "If you don't know who you are you or where you’re going, any path will take you there". Sioux Proverb

“Men don’t change. The only thing new inrepparttar 101440 world isrepparttar 101441 history you don’t know.” Harry Truman, American President

“I’m an idealist: I don’t know where I’m going but I’m on my way.” Carl Sandburg, American poet.

The better you understand your vision as to what you wantrepparttar 101442 better your partner will cooperate. It would be easier for your partner to follow your road map than to try to think and guess what's on your mind.

"The first rule for any successful strategy is to think." EvanDudik

2. “The toughest thing about success is that you’ve got to keep on being a success.” Irving Berlin, American Composer, Theater arts 1958

If you're going to partner in a successful way you better have commitments, trusts, distinct understandings, and clear picture of your plans.

"The best way to have a good idea is to have a lot of ideas." Linus Pauling

3. “Genius is that superior alchemy that changesrepparttar 101443 vices of nature intorepparttar 101444 elements of destiny” Pierre Emmanuel (Noel Mathieu) French writer, Buadelaire.

The old storyboard technique of Walt Disney as explained by Mike Vance, of placing all ofrepparttar 101445 animations and succession onrepparttar 101446 wall may not be a bad idea so your partner can see what you're thinking. This technique of sequential picturing will stimulate other ideas.

4. Stick to your knitting", Tom Peters

“ Generally,repparttar 101447 theories we believe we call facts andrepparttar 101448 facts we disbelieve we call theories.” Felix Cohen.

If you're going to be innovative with your partner you better have a better understanding his or her limitations and perceptions. Don't create a losing situation with false and unreal expectations.

5. Always think down board" Carl Segan

“Creativity in science could be described asrepparttar 101449 act of putting two and two together to make five.” Arthur Koestler, British Philosopher, The Act of Creation.

Don't try to out guess your partner. This isn't a chess game it is a sharing game. Have a clear understanding ofrepparttar 101450 shot and long-term goals. In order to understand your partner better and how he or she reacts, initiate more short-term goals and see that response fromrepparttar 101451 partner.

6. Tell me and I will forget; shown me and I may remember, involve me and I will understand." Chinese proverb

"Give a man of fish and he eats today. Teach him how to fish and he will never go hungry."

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