Forgive And Make Room For New ExperiencesWritten by Judi Singleton
The process of forgiveness sets us free. It makes room in our lives for new experiences. When we harbor resentments they take up a lot of time and space in our minds that could be filled with other things that we would enjoy more I am sure like love, compassion, and joy. Think on other hand if we seldom took offense how freeing that would be. It would allow us more time and space and illiminate if not entirely from our lives need to forgive. To detach lovingly from another person when they offend you is a powerful tool. You can realize that you have power to react or not. Not only will it give you a great deal of time and energy not to have to forgive but it will give you power by making choice not to be offended in first place.There are four steps to forgiveness: 1. You nuture self-justified anger blaming other person for hurting you. You forget at this point you had a choice how to react. We want to make person who made us feel bad undo this thing in past that hurt us. Now that is not realistic as no one can go back and change past we must deal with person in here and now. Aslong as are unwilling to forgive we give person we won't forgive rent-free space in our minds, emotional shackles on our hearts, and right to torment us in small hours of night. 2. Stage two is when you see you are hurting yourself with your anger and it no longer feels good. Perhaps you are feeling emotionally unwell or physically from anger itself. You at this point see other person's point of view or you decide anger is just not worth it so you forgive. You can forgive others or yourself in this way.
| | 3:33am?!Written by Skye Thomas
What is it with angels and digital clocks? I fell asleep just after 11pm and am still trying to recover from switch to daylight savings time. I really don't need to be up and working right now, or do I? I had asked my angels earlier today to help me write some more articles. So, at 3:33am they wake me up whispering something or other and insisting I need to get up and work. Geez! Have a little heart guys! I have a two year old for pete's sake. Don't they know how tired I'm going to be trying to keep up with him tomorrow!? Nick Bunick spoke at my church years ago when his book The Messengers was such a big hit. One of things he mentioned that really touched me was how angels would come to him at 4:44 and how numbers 444 showed up all of time in reference to them. I know exactly what he's talking about. They seem to have a great love of repeat numbers. So, as I drink my coffee and wipe sleep from my eyes I ask them, "Well, what do you want to talk about?" Their response was to remind me of some of stuff that I'm researching right now. Not a topic I want to discuss quite yet. That's why I'm researching it, so I can have something substantial to put behind my claims besides just 'hey this really weird thing happened to me.' They said it's not topic that matters but research material that I've found. My thoughts were, "What information?! All anyone else has channeled on subject seems pretty vague and worthless. I haven't found anything to explain what happened!" Exactly their point. Huh? Tell them to clear channels, be more specific, accountable. When I first started communicating with guardian angels and spirit guides, I used to get really angry. They'd say most bizarre things that meant nothing to me until after an event took place and then there would be this sudden ah-ha moment and I would finally understand what it was they had been trying to say to me. They were fond of using visual pictures and keyword phrases that remind me of a Google search. I would then have to decipher it all to figure out what message was. I hate that. I'm a busy woman and I often have too much on my plate. Get to point already! One day, they told me to buy a particular book about how to talk to your angels. That might even be title of it. It was better written then most. My angels made me give it away to someone who was scared and getting ready to go in for surgery. I wish I still had it sometimes, but apparently I don't really need it anymore. Anyway, in this book author talked about how to develop a strong helpful relationship with your guardian angels. She gave tips on ways to communicate with them.
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