Despite successful careers, loads of money, fantastic looks or physique,
truth is even most seemingly “perfect” single people will tell you that they would be happiest if they had someone to love. It is said that there is someone for everyone, it is just a matter of finding that someone. Ay, and to quote Shakespeare, there’s rub. If you talk to a scientist, you’ll hear that meeting someone is just a matter of numbers. If you can raise your exposure to a greater number of potential candidates, then you raise likelihood of cupid’s arrow hitting mark. Well, most single people I know are surrounded by thousands of people everyday at grocery store, at office, in airports, at gym, etc., etc., but they haven’t met person that pulls their heartstrings.
Maybe you have tried singles mixers, speed dating at local sports pub, or even resorted to having your friends set you up with eligible singles. And what if all that turns up zero? Then maybe it’s time to see if your house, your office, or your business could be undermining your efforts to gain a suitable partner in love. So, what exactly are key elements for singles to look for when determining if energy of their space is killing their romantic prospects? You are about to find out. Now, get ready to make a serious assessment of your space to open your life to a new love!
1. Is a “man” or a “woman” missing in your life? You could be without a special someone because you are missing a NW or SW corner! Every space must have a NW and a SW corner. These are cornerstones of a space, and in feng shui thought, two most important sectors. The NW corresponds to a man and SW corresponds to a woman. So, if you are a single woman, you need to activate your NW sector, or a single man, SW sector. By same token, both single men and women need to activate SW sector because it is also sector of marriage, romance, and relationships.
If your NW or SW corners are missing, or afflicted by a toilet, kitchen, storeroom, etc., then you begin to see what problem is. How do you correct this? If you are extremely serious about finding someone, then moving might be an option. However, less drastic measures are also available. Use these tips to guide you.
•If NW or SW corner is missing: Place a mirror on wall where NW corner should be so that it visually expands. Outside, where missing corner is, try to delineate this space with a light pole, a heavy rock or object, or create a fenced area or garden to put back this missing area.
•If NW/SW corner has a toilet: Make sure this room has a mirror in it. Keep door closed. You can also try following remedies of placing a heavy rock in NW toilet, and candles and red objects in SW toilet. DO NOT make mistake of putting candles or red objects in NW or a stone in SW because this will make things much, much worse!
•If NW/SW has a kitchen: In NW, this is a very bad placement. Kitchens in NW are not good. You can try to add stones here, such as geodes, or whatever strikes your fancy. You can also paint this room a beige color. This will help strengthen NW energy with earth element of beige color. Avoid water or fire elements in NW kitchen as these hurt precious NW energy.
In SW, add pairs of objects here, such as setting a place for two at table, even if there is only one dining! You can also had a stone object here or paint kitchen beige to add more “earth” energy.
2.Tap your personal marriage and romance direction. Orient bed or sleep with your head pointing in your marriage and family direction based on your kua number. Move your desk to face this direction (although, you should make sure you do not ever have your back to door). Eat facing this direction, and enter doors from this direction.
Here are orientations for both men and women:
NumberOrientation 1South 2Northwest 3Southeast 4East 5Northwest (male) West (female) 6Southwest 7Northeastearth/fire 8West 9North
Besides using doors according to your kua number, sitting, eating, and sleeping, you will also want to energize corresponding areas in your living room.
3. Fake it until you make it. Make your bedroom appear as if a couple lived in it. So be sure to decorate it in a gender-neutral manner (no fussy flowers and pastels or severely masculine rooms). Make sure there are pairs of lamps (one on either side of bed), and pairs of objects in bedroom.
